There is no ideal relationship between a man and a woman. But this is what makes the union interesting. However, there are certain habits that it is better to get rid of before they finally separate the lovers. Let's talk about them in more detail.
It is quite logical, when faced with troubles, to look for that very key link, which became the starting point of destruction. However, what is more important is what to do with it. You can blame the chosen one for weakness, gentleness, laziness or excessive self-confidence. But what will you get as a result? … It is much more effective to support your loved one, jointly try to find a solution to the problem. Everyone consciously chooses a partner for himself. And either he accepts it, or continues to search.
A pair of lovers is a single whole. Is it right to brag about your achievements, pushing your chosen one into the shadow? Of course, this behavior is unacceptable. You don't have to be competitors, partnership is equality. Even if one of the companions is doing better, you should not boast of it. It is necessary to support, create motivation, "pull up" your loved one.
Sometimes lovers resemble children, well, or perceive their chosen ones so. At the slightest offense, they strive to come up with a punishment. For example, they deprive them of intimacy, declare a boycott, etc. However, it should be remembered that benevolence is always rewarded more and more pleasantly. And there is nothing terrible and global in the fact that your chosen one in the hectic work has forgotten about the next anniversary.
Another mistaken model of behavior in relationships. Why? Because it already deliberately forms not equality, but submission. So, in exchange for the service, the partner promises to buy something for the chosen one or fulfill it. However, such relationships are usually short-lived. It is more efficient in this case to negotiate.
