Any woman dreams of spending time in comfort, having enough money for shopping, living in a large apartment and driving her car. And it is better that she got it all without much difficulty, just when she was married. But before deciding on a marriage of convenience, consider the possible consequences.
Instructions
Step 1
Consider if you have enough patience. If you do not have any special affection for this man, you may be annoyed by his habits. You may have different views on the most common and everyday things. Often, such differences lead to serious conflicts and greatly spoil life.
You can often be alone. Well-earning men are rarely couch potatoes. As a rule, they either literally live at work or enjoy the advantages that money gives. Are you ready for the role of a well-paid housekeeper?
Step 2
Understand whether you will have a meaningful or even decisive voice in family matters? What arguments will you have if you disagree with your husband's opinion about important points in family life? There can be a lot of reasons for disputes: from a place of rest to the principles of raising children. Often, the decision is made by the one who provides financial well-being.
Not only that, if the husband has a lot of money, it doesn’t mean that his wife will have enough. Think how well you know this man? What will you do if he controls your expenses? Can you convince him to spend more on you?
Step 3
Decide if a good name matters to you. Big money often comes in less than righteous ways. Even if the capital is inherited, its original origin may be questionable. Will you feel at ease if they reproach you for this?
By the way, if the state is the merit of the previous generation, then be prepared for the spouse's parents wanting to control your every step, evaluate and give advice in an orderly tone. You will have to adjust your lifestyle to the style of your husband's family.
Step 4
Prepare answers to possible reproaches from your partner that you live with him only because of money. Such thoughts often come to a wealthy spouse. Even if your feelings are sincere, proving it is not easy. And if you really have a marriage of convenience, then you will have to show serious acting skills.
Step 5
Imagine trouble happens. It can be different: your husband leaves for another, goes broke, or even dies. What do you do in this case? What sources of income will you have? To have answers to these questions, try to conclude a marriage contract in which to defend your rights and interests as much as possible. Better to do this before the wedding. Have your own bank account, make savings. In spite of everything, pursue your career, get an education. And then your choice may be quite happy.
