The ending of a relationship is never complete without emotion. If the ended romance was unsuccessful, you will be relieved. But if you did not plan to part with a man, and he took the initiative and left, you will surely feel a desire to take revenge and teach him a lesson.
Instructions
Step 1
Calm down and consider the situation. Try to understand if you really want to teach your lover a lesson or if you are simply at the mercy of emotions at the moment. Imagine that you have already done this. Are you experiencing joy and satisfaction? If you have doubts about the rationality of your own actions, postpone plans for revenge for the future: it is quite possible that after a while you will no longer even want to think about this person. Analyze also the degree of your personal fault in everything that happened. If a man took advantage of you, hiding his civil status, your indignation is understandable. But if you deliberately started an affair with a married man or are married yourself, first try to understand yourself and your actions.
Step 2
Plan your actions. Consider all the potential outcomes of your "revenge". Try to choose an option in which no one gets hurt, especially young children. For example, if you tell the spouse of your lover the whole truth, in this situation she will rather suffer, and not the "hero of the novel."
Step 3
Play on your lover's weaknesses as you should know him well. For example, if he was economical, provoke him into serious spending. Of course, you shouldn't go as far as blackmailing and causing damage to property. Cunning and clear planning can help you empty your ex's wallet much more gracefully.
Step 4
Spoil a man's reputation. Intimate photos sent to colleagues, a questionnaire in his name on a dating site, fictitious calls from a venereal clinic: with a good level of imagination, there can be a lot of options. However, at the same time, think again whether all this is worthy of you.
Step 5
Make your ex-lover regret losing you. Change your style, buy a lot of beautiful things, have a professional photo shoot and share your photos on social networks. Get a new man, interesting hobbies, go on trips. In a casual meeting, a former lover will surely experience a feeling of regret that you are not together. And you, in turn, can enjoy a new life and even forget about recent plans to teach your lover a lesson.
