The psychological atmosphere in the family, the happiness of the spouses, and also, importantly, the personal growth of a man, depend on the ability to support a man in difficult times. As they say, everyone is good, but not so easy.
Instructions
Step 1
The thing is that men have been told since childhood that they need to be strong, not give up and never cry. And women are accustomed to this and already at the sight of the upset face of their beloved they are lost or even irritated. Therefore, you need to understand that a lot of a man's success depends on a woman, and then you can perceive crises as tasks that you just need to cope with.
Step 2
Remember that you need to stay calm and in no case multiply your man's panic. At first it may seem that he is silent (and this is what men do when they feel bad), which means that he is hiding something from you. And then silly thoughts and suspicions appear, but all this should not be. With your instant questions and tension, you will only multiply the complexity of the situation. Therefore, keep yourself in hand.
Step 3
Next, surround your man with care, love and comfort. If he came home from work, without any questions, let him undress, serve the most delicious dinner, turn on pleasant music, light candles. You can even do a soothing massage or simply massage your head and neck area gently. At this moment, the main thing is for the man to relax as much as possible, and the oppressive thoughts left him for a while.
Step 4
Go on a joint walk in the park, look at the lake together, feed the ducks. At this moment, when a man realizes that you are near, support and love him, you can begin to tactfully ask what happened. He will be open to you, there is no doubt about it.
Step 5
After listening carefully, without interrupting, say a few words of understanding. When expressing your opinion about the situation, be careful, try not to offend the man with your remark. Anticipate reactions in advance.
Step 6
Help him in everything: get ready for work, iron his shirt, print a report. And that's all - no questions asked. Household and minor work problems can ruin the mood in an instant if a person's soul is restless. Therefore, remove all these responsibilities from the shoulders of your man.
Step 7
Offer your help. Men are quite simple in their decisions and straightforward, and a woman has natural cunning and wisdom, so show her in this situation. For example, if your loved one has a falling out with a friend, offer to arrange a truce by going together with the families to an event that can unite everyone. For example, football.
Step 8
The main thing is to show calmness and patience and always let the man understand that you are near. You don't need to say a lot of words, just one capacious piece of advice and your all-encompassing care is enough for the beloved man to survive his difficult situation without loss, but with great gratitude to you.
