Life is full of all sorts of surprises, sometimes not very pleasant; there are those who are very difficult to survive. But if next to you is your loved one, loyal and reliable, then even the most seemingly hopeless situation will not seem so gloomy and will definitely be resolved. Such difficult moments test human relationships for strength, but to pass these tests, wisdom is needed.
Instructions
Step 1
Every loving woman immediately notices when a person close to her has some kind of trouble. Of course, your intuition will tell you what to do in such cases, but, unfortunately, not everyone has enough worldly wisdom to behave so as not to inadvertently hurt a person even more. It is important to immediately pull yourself together and try to calmly think about the situation. In any case, if your loved one is upset and stressed about something, do not increase panic and irritation in him or create a tense atmosphere around you.
Step 2
When a serious problem arises, very often people withdraw into themselves. They do not know how to proceed and must first consider the situation. To a greater extent, this applies to men. Therefore, give time to your loved one to come to his senses, do not pester with questions and do not impose your communication. When he can, he will tell you everything himself.
Step 3
And yet the beloved has come to you; it is important for him to know that he is not alone. Be close, try to surround him with your unobtrusive care and comfort. Cook him a delicious dinner, put on good music, give him what he loves. Perhaps a soothing massage will not be superfluous, because he is in a tension that must be relieved and discarded depressing thoughts.
Step 4
No matter how difficult the problem is, you hardly need to rush to do something right away. It takes time to let go of it, rest and relax. Try to convince your friend to go for a walk somewhere in the park, go to the movies, finally.
Step 5
When the strongest emotions are dulled, a person immediately wants to speak out, to tell what he has accumulated in his soul. Your role is to listen carefully, without interrupting, and then express support in a few words. Try not to inadvertently hurt his feelings. Don't give any helpful advice; now he doesn't need them at all. And no reproaches or condemnation, even if you see that he is wrong in something - you want to help him, and not dig into the wound.
Step 6
In this case, you are the objective side with a clear and sober head. Offer him real help, push him to concrete actions.
Step 7
Do not let your loved one fall into prolonged depression, because this is very harmful not only for the psyche, but also for health in general. Provide him with psychological support. Of course, you are not a professional psychologist, but love should help you do the right thing. He needs your tenderness and affection.
