Many men are sure that a wise wife is a myth, which in reality does not and cannot be confirmed. A wise wife, according to men, is a treasure and next to such a woman a man will feel like a knight in shining armor. The second myth is that wisdom comes from nature. But this is not the case. Learning to be a wise woman is quite within her power.
Instructions
Step 1
Accept a man as he is, with all the advantages and disadvantages, joys and problems.
Step 2
Start each new day with a smile and a delicious breakfast, do not spoil the mood of either yourself or your husband with lectures and a gloomy face.
Step 3
Don't bother your husband from doing any activity or hobby (fixing a car, watching football).
Step 4
Do not threaten your husband because of any disagreement with a divorce or the fact that you will pack up your things, take the children and go to your mother.
Step 5
Understand and accept the fact that a man is tired at work, and do not ask him to help you around the house right after you get home.
Step 6
Aside from the masculine "remarks", remember that men and women love differently. They have different ideas about love, different priorities in life. When a man goes headlong into solving a problem, there is no need to give him advice, go to him with conversations, but it is better to wait patiently until he finds a way out of this situation, solves a certain problem. Then he will again be gentle and loving.
Step 7
Respect your husband, his plans, secrets, thoughts. Do not criticize, listen to his opinion. Do not humiliate your husband even in moments of quarrels and scandals. Maintain your own human dignity, respect others and respect yourself. Do not be humiliated and insulted.
Step 8
Develop. Keep up with your husband in intellectual development. Do not be confined to the family circle: home, everyday life, husband, children. You must have your own interests, your hobbies. It should be interesting for my husband to talk with you not only about a delicious dinner and about the child's problems at school, but also about politics, literature, art, cars, and you never know about anything else.
Step 9
Remember that your annoyance is a sign of bad parenting. Better to just tell your husband that you are in trouble and sort out your own feelings and thoughts. And if the reason for your bad mood is the husband himself, all the more you need to talk to him about it, and not complain to your mother or friends.
