It is easy and simple to be a wise woman. It is incredibly difficult to be a wise woman. Both of these statements are correct. After all, wisdom is not a set of rules and laws, it is the ability to live in harmony with oneself and the surrounding world, the ability to see and accept life as it is. Wisdom means talent that every woman can discover in herself.
Instructions
Step 1
A wise woman is a woman to whom we turn in difficult times for advice, the one who can encourage and support, and even if she just keeps quiet next to you, the world will become brighter and more understandable, harmony will come to it. Having found harmony, you will become one step closer to wisdom, and therefore to your goal. Likewise, wisdom is impossible without experience. It doesn't matter whose experience it is. In our time, it is not at all necessary to fill your own bumps in order to know life. Watch good films, read autobiographical books, flip through online forums. At the same time, try to try on someone else's situation for yourself and understand how you would act in this or a similar case.
Step 2
Keeping a diary could be a good service. The diary can be anything - an old classic notebook or a blog on the Internet. It can be very useful to return to old records after some time, maybe even after a couple of years. You will be surprised at how much your present vision of the situation will differ from your past thoughts. And this will be another step on the ladder of ascent to wisdom. The ability to accept people as they are is also one of the signs of a wise woman. Therefore, you should not try to remake others, be it a work colleague, a beloved man or even a child. All of them will take your non-interference with dignity, and when they really need your advice, they will definitely come for it and do as you tell them.
Step 3
A wise woman does not divide the world into black and white, she knows how to distinguish all shades of gray and does not try to shift the graphic scale to the right or left. She understands that there are no ideal people, but there are no hopeless people either. Well, above all, a wise woman is a loving woman. It is impossible to love the world without loving yourself. Love, harmony, peace and happiness - all this will lead you to the desired goal. And having become wise, you will be able to give these feelings further. After all, this is what our life consists of