From childhood, girls in the family are trained to grow up smart and beautiful. Those who really look after themselves and do well at school, and then at the university, really become such. It is enough to get a decent education, and you will be known as an intelligent, well-mannered lady. But to become a wise woman, you will need a completely different experience - everyday experience.
It takes effort and time to become an intellectual.
How to become an intelligent woman?
- Strive for a high score while in high school and college in all subjects. This will require perseverance, attentiveness and ambition. It is necessary to spend time reading books, studying the sciences and developing creativity in oneself. This will take years, and the earlier the goal is set, the easier it is to achieve it.
- Intellectuals are people who have received a good higher education (and more than one) or were engaged in self-development and independent long-term study of any scientific field. There is nothing difficult in this, because even "cramps" -students graduate from the university with diploma crusts, which means they can be considered smart.
- Read a large amount of literature and scientific papers.
- Train your brain with the help of mind games, crosswords, quizzes, attend developmental trainings and courses.
So you can "gain intelligence", but not wisdom. What is the worldly wisdom of a woman is a deep mind that relies on a person's life experience. This is the ability to quickly, at the level of intuition, solve various problems without resorting to logical operations. It is important to understand that the concept of "mind" cannot be called synonymous with "wisdom". An intelligent woman cannot be classified as wise, but wisdom implies the presence of intelligence.
What are the differences and how is this property manifested in love?
In a relationship with a man, wisdom is fundamentally different from education.
- Situation number 1. The man made a mistake, and the woman found out about it. A smart woman will offer a successful, in her opinion, solution, will try to warn the chosen one and prevent possible negativity. What will the wise man do? He will calm down the spouse, say that everything is fine, it happens to everyone. She will definitely provide support and pretend that nothing terrible has happened.
- Situation number 2. A man is experiencing difficulties at work, a career or his own business is crumbling. A woman gifted with intelligence will try to cope with the situation on her own, showing her husband her resilience and confidence in the future. She will show the man by her example that, despite the difficulties, they will cope. A wise woman will very gracefully and masterly give a man a few ideas, show the direction of movement and with a smile will provide moral support.
What are the differences in family life?
Situation number 1. An intelligent woman is firmly convinced that knowledge is always a success. She will supervise the education and assessment of the children. She will take care of additional development, in-depth knowledge (with the help of tutors), early education. A wise mother in advance of education will prioritize the child's personality, his moral fortitude, integrity, the presence of his own view, opinion, and will also develop the ability to dream
Situation number 2. An intelligent woman will calculate the child's actions several steps ahead, not allowing either in childhood or in adulthood to make a serious mistake, stumble, or choose the wrong path. She will draw on her experience and give good advice on choosing a profession, job, spouse, friends and partners. A wise mother, on the contrary, will let the children understand everything for themselves. This is a school of life - getting your own experience. A wise woman will always support children, even if it is contrary to her principles
Situation number 3. An intelligent woman is confident in her independence, knowledge and responsibility for the decisions made. Her intelligence allows her to flaunt her independence from her parents, and even more so from her mother-in-law. She will not accept someone else's point of view and advice, since she herself calculates everything and understands everything. A wise woman, on the contrary, demonstrates her complaisance and attentive attitude towards all family members and their opinions. She does not argue with anyone and does not prove her case to anyone. And only in a wise way agrees with everything, but still does it in his own way. At the same time, he maintains friendly relations with everyone, with a smile
What are the differences in relationships with others?
Situation number 1. In school or at work, an intelligent woman will demonstrate to her superiors and others everything that she is intellectually capable of. She does not make mistakes, submits reports in the forefront, is glad when she is singled out and encouraged for her merits. Perhaps this does not in the best way affect her relations with fellow students or colleagues, because there are so many envious people among them. A wise woman does not strive for superiority, for her it is not a priority for her to be the best and to stand out intellectually. She performs her tasks just as well, but does not participate in the competition race. She turns work / study days into a pleasant pastime for herself, decorating the process with a friendly atmosphere at the workplace. For a wise woman, even the most envious acquaintance will become a pleasant companion with whom it is pleasant to chat over a cup of tea during a break
The main difference between smart and wise women is their outlook on life. The first feels happiness from her own righteousness, from her brilliant victories (allowing herself to succumb to competitive moments, enjoying the feeling of her own superiority). The second knows for sure that it's boring and lonely on the podium and it doesn't matter who is right and wrong, the main thing is to become happy.
