The same man can be generous with one woman and stingy with another. There are seven very simple tricks of a wise woman that will help you get maximum care, attention and delightful gifts from your beloved.
If until now your lover has not been particularly generous, but you do not consider this a reason for parting, it is quite possible to try to rectify the situation. Absolutely every man is generous by nature, but only if it makes sense.
1 reception - enjoy gifts
Even if you bought a cake as a delicious dessert. Learn to be genuinely happy as a child. Remember, men do not tolerate falsehood. Therefore, rejoice from the bottom of your heart. Finally, consider that this is only the first step. And then, your beloved will try to please you more and more often. At the moment when you were presented with a gift, you can remember some joyful event in order to portray happiness on 21 teddy bears.
Step 2 - ask for help
What is the point of caring for and giving gifts to a woman who will stop a galloping horse and enter a burning hut. She is so independent that she will buy everything for herself. And in general, giving gifts to such a woman is dangerous. She may consider this an insult, or a desire to "buy" her. Therefore, the man is simply afraid of offending. It will get worse further. He will feel unnecessary. As a result, he will lie down on the sofa, and you will work 3 jobs, clean up, cook, watch the children, and also take care of him. And if a woman asks for help from a man, shows weakness and behaves like a real lady, the desire to please with gifts arises by itself. Only if the woman shows her weakness to the man is the sofa scenario out of the question.
3 reception - sincere thanks
If you don't know how to thank and rejoice, what's the point of spending money on gifts for you? But you still need to choose a gift, spend time and energy. If a woman is always unhappy, trying to please her is simply pointless. Even if a man brings an expensive foreign car, a disgruntled woman will not like the color, gearbox, interior, brand. A dissatisfied woman will find a flaw.
In order for the desire to spend money and energy on you to appear, you need to at least evaluate the efforts made. Give your man a sincere gratitude to make him feel needed. Believe me, the changes will not be long in coming.
Step 4 - make wishes
So that gifts really bring you joy, and not just squander the budget of your beloved, be able to correctly speak about your desires.
- Men do not understand hints well - that's for sure. And if you look at a ring in the catalog for an hour and a half, and then leave the browser page with the same ring open, 90% of a hundred will not even guess that it was a hint.
- Never speak reproachfully about your desires. Like, you always feel sorry for me for money. Vaughn Lenke's husband wears flowers every month from his salary.
- Calmly say that you would very much like your beloved man to please you with flowers. It is very nice.
- Never criticize a man, don't let us feel like a failure.
- No need to manipulate and blow sponges to receive a gift.
5 reception - dream, do not deny yourself anything
You block male generosity if:
- If you receive an expensive gift and start lecturing your man that you might not have spent it.
- Offer to return the gift to the store because it is too expensive.
- It would be better if he bought me new boots instead of a bouquet of flowers.
- Why did you buy me a second bottle of perfume, if the first one is not over yet.
- I already have everything, why did you spend?
Don't be afraid to dream! Accept all gifts with gratitude. And remember, you deserve it!
Step 6 - you deserve it
If to the question "what to give you" you answered that you do not need anything, great! You yourself told your man in plain text that you can not waste money, energy, time on me. I'm not worthy of gifts. Spend your money profitably. Friends, for example, drink beer in a bar.
Never count her how much money a man has spent on you. The clever one knows that for every ruble spent, he will receive a huge amount of energy from his beloved, which will help him achieve unprecedented heights in business or in society.
Also, never return gifts after a breakup.
7 reception - generosity
It is impossible to just take constantly. In order for a man to continue to be generous, you, too, must be generous towards the dumb, he must feel your love, care.
Make surprises for your loved one more often, choose gifts carefully. And never give a set of socks-panties-toothpaste for the holidays.
Remember that a gift is a show of attention. Remember what your man wants. Be attentive to him. For example, let's say you come to an auto parts store. He buys spare parts and says, oh, I'll have to somehow buy a new cloth to wipe the interior. You write down his "desire". And the next day, surprise me. Trust me, he will be moved.
