You decided that you have already reached a sufficient level of self-realization, and now you want warm family relationships and a home, but do not know by what parameters you should choose your husband?
Instructions
Step 1
Pay close attention to the family of the potential groom. The fact is that a man will always, on a subconscious level, try to build a family in the image and likeness of the one that his parents had. If in his family it is considered normal to hit his wife, then such a man will sooner or later do something similar. Of course, it happens that, for example, in the family of drinking parents, a child grows up with an acute dislike of alcohol. But such hostility can also affect the attitude towards you. Therefore, always pay attention to what kind of relationship is accepted in his family.
Step 2
Find out how jealous the man is. Of course, every woman is pleased that a man from time to time can be jealous of her, because it means that he values her very much. But constant paranoid persecution, espionage, fits of jealousy do not affect family life in the best way.
Step 3
Don't choose your complete opposite. Of course, opposites attract. Because recognizing a person who is not like you is an extremely exciting process. You are interested in a person because he reveals to you something, hitherto unknown to you. However, one fine moment you will definitely understand that you are looking in different directions with this person and you simply have nothing to talk about.
Step 4
Stop believing in unequal marriages. Of course, there are such unions in which the husband is fabulously rich, and he took his wife from a dysfunctional family, or the husband is over seventy, and the wife is twenty, and they are quite happy. But be aware that these cases are isolated. Choose a companion from your circle, because if you grew up in a different environment, if you have a different level of education and outlook on life, in so many issues you simply will not find common ground.
Step 5
Don't judge a man based on looks alone. Of course, a woman on a subconscious level is drawn to the image of a kind of macho, strong, stately, handsome, broad-shouldered. But think about how such a macho will raise your children. Will he be able to become a good husband? A good father?
Step 6
Try to avoid weak-willed and weak-willed men. Of course, you should not go to extremes and choose a man as your companion who, through his fist, is ready to establish his own order in the house. But you definitely don't need someone who is easy to manipulate. After all, not only you can manipulate him, but also anyone who has such a need.
Step 7
Do not forget that there is also love in the world. Perhaps your man is not ideal, but if you have real bright strong feelings, you can close your eyes to some things.
