Probably, many guys would like to build harmonious relationships with their soulmate, so more than once they asked themselves the question: what qualities do girls value most in a strong half of humanity? What do you need to know and be able to do to attract the attention of the person you like? And how to win her heart?
The image of the ideal man
Most women want to see a real man next to them. Someone who is able to challenge problems, failures, adversity. A person who is able to achieve certain career heights and support his family.
From an early age, many young ladies have in their heads a certain image of the ideal man, the hero of her novel. If a guy somehow meets this ideal, then he a priori makes her heart beat faster, and attracts her like a magnet.
Although everyone has different ideals, most of the fair sex pays attention to the following characteristics:
- decisiveness (even if the man literally devours the girl with his eyes all evening, but does not approach her, his chances of success are incredibly small);
- self-confidence (women like men who know what they want and can achieve in this life);
- masculinity (as it is sung in the song of the ABBA group "winner takes it all" - the winner takes everything);
- activity (girls pay more attention to representatives of the opposite sex with an active life position than to the quiet and modest ones);
- persistence and assertiveness (if you have already begun to do something, then fight to the end. This approach will appeal to many young ladies).
According to psychologists, even if nature did not reward a man with the appearance of Apollo, but he has all these qualities, he will attract the attention of women. Sometimes he will not have to do anything at all, they themselves will seek to meet with him.
additional characteristics
Of course, many women like signs of attention, and they should be done not only during the candy-bouquet period, holidays or some memorable dates for you two, but just like that. Indulge your beloved with a delicious dinner, give her a bouquet of flowers or a box of chocolates, invite her to a theater or a concert, and so on. Little things like this will add romance to your relationship, yet many girls often lack it.
Don't forget to take care. Help your girlfriend carry heavy bags from the supermarket, cover with a blanket if she suddenly fell asleep on the couch, advise her to tie a warm terry scarf around her neck if it's cold outside. Your significant other will clearly appreciate it and will know that next to you is like a stone wall.
Another important characteristic is neatness. Agree, hardly anyone will like a guy who does not wash for several days in a row, smells bad and constantly walks in dirty, wrinkled clothes.
