You fell in love with a married man. You can’t live without him, you don’t listen to anyone and you are determinedly going to continue your relationship. It remains only to hope that your feelings will fade over time, and you will understand the whole hopelessness of such a relationship, but this will be later, but for now you need to learn how to properly build a relationship with a married man so that you do not suffer much later.
Instructions
Step 1
Try to drop all feelings. Even if you love a married man and think that you cannot live without him, restrain yourself, do not relax. Remember: this is not your man. You are just an outlet for him, which helps him to distract from family life.
Step 2
To love a married man and maintain a relationship with him, you must always remember: he is unlikely to divorce, even if he constantly promises it to you. Many psychologists believe that if within six months a married man has not left his wife for his mistress, then he is not going to get divorced. Know that all his promises are simple excuses and an attempt to maintain the old relationship with you. If a man decides to leave his wife, then nothing will stop him. He makes a decision and implements it, and does not ask his mistress "to be patient for another two or three years" until the children grow up, leave, go to university, and so on.
Step 3
Loving a married man is difficult and painful. This relationship can drain you and devastate you. No matter how hard it is, you must not forget about yourself, so you don't need to feel unfree and refuse new acquaintances. If you are having an affair with a married man, you still need to look for a free man for a serious relationship, so as not to end up with a broken heart.
Step 4
Some ladies want to take their beloved away from the family and try in every possible way to designate their presence in the life of a married lover. For example, during dates they leave a mark of lipstick on a lover's shirt, start calling him at the most inconvenient time, and sending messages to the phone. With such actions, the mistress is trying to upset her man's family life, however, this is a dead-end option. As a rule, a married man will make a choice in favor of his wife and during the next scandal in the family he will promise his wife not to meet with you again. If you really value him, then you should respect his family and try not to create unnecessary problems for him.
Step 5
To love and maintain a relationship with a married man, you must have an active life. It is necessary to build it so that in those moments when your lover spends time with his family, you are not left completely alone. Meet with friends, attend interesting events, spend holidays in companies. Only in this case, a relationship with a married man will bring more joy than tears and disappointments.
