Female friends and acquaintances are constantly pampered with expensive gifts: cars, trips, restaurants. If you are only handed flowers for your birthday once a year, then the question often arises: "Why am I worse?" Nothing. It's time to learn how to receive gifts from men.
Instructions
Step 1
Let men know what you want. Learn to express what you really want. Men cannot read minds and cannot end up in your head. Sometimes the desires of the opposite sexes differ so much that it is very difficult to guess! This does not mean that, starting from this moment, you will only be reading your loved one lists of expected gifts. Just look for the right moment to tell your man what you want. If it is difficult to ask for a gift, start small: tell your loved one about some trifle, a trinket that is not worth anything. He's not sorry, but you will be pleased. Then try asking for something more expensive.
Step 2
Learn to accept gifts. How do you feel when you are presented with something dear? Afraid of losing your independence? Or do you find yourself in debt, where favor for a man is the payment? Understand that gifts are gifts, but close relationships and the desire for intimacy are different. To accept a gift from a man, all you have to do is smile and say thank you. If you feel uncomfortable, return a gift. Immediately. Let it be some kind of trinket, because suddenly there will not be something prepared at hand or in your purse. It's okay if the gifts are of different values. This way you will not become addicted.
Step 3
Enjoy the gifts. Always do it sincerely, like a child. A man gets pleasure when he sees an enthusiastic face and burning eyes. At this moment, he is your hero. Men strive to surprise, delight the woman they love. For them, this is a way to express themselves, care, masculine essence. Do not deny this to your fans.
Step 4
Take the man at his word. If the beloved has promised, let him keep the promise, because he is strong. Sometimes, when passing by a flower shop, you just need to remind a man that you are expecting a bouquet from him.
Step 5
Control the process of receiving gifts. A relationship between a man and a woman is as good as the two of you invest in it. If your partner hasn't given gifts for a long time, consider maybe he is giving them to another woman. The more a man invests in a relationship, the more he values them, and, therefore, does not want to lose you so easily. Stinginess or inaction of a partner does not mean that something is wrong with you. Your man may not be mature or ready for a relationship. In moments of male inaction, begin to love and appreciate yourself as much as possible. When you feel stingy is devastating, choose another man. If, in spite of everything, you love your partner, learn to see in him male actions - care, attention, courage. Then don't let the smallest gift hurt your pride.
