Many married couples are faced with the fact that living together, having children and other worries over time lead to the fading of feelings between spouses. Discontent is growing, it seems as if love is gone, and this is already the basis for the emergence of serious problems. It is possible and even necessary to resurrect feelings. In this situation, leisure will come to our aid.
Leisure time together is an integral part of the family, just as important as raising children, for example. According to A. I. Antonov, the nonspecific functions of the family are associated with the accumulation and transfer of property, status, the organization of production and consumption, recreation and leisure, with care for the health and well-being of family members, with the creation of a microclimate that promotes stress relief and self-preservation. (Antonov A. I., Medkov V. M., "Sociology of the Family" 1996)
In order for leisure to bring the expected benefits of relationships, here are some simple recommendations.
1. Change your environment. If you are tempted to just sit in front of the TV together, drive this thought away and go away from home yourself.
2. Spend the day together. Children, friends, good girlfriends and relatives should not be with you on this day. Just the two of you.
3. Talk about whatever you like, except for family and household problems.
4. Try to pack apart. There is no need for a man to see hair curlers, tweezers and other ladies' attribution, especially on the day of a date.
5. Girls, be beautiful! Spend time on your transformation, make a holiday for yourself and your man.
6. It is important to choose the right event on the date of the date. Whatever you are thinking of attending, this event should help raise your mental strength and inspire both of you. (A romantic movie in the cinema, a classical music concert, a jazz concert, etc.).
7. I recommend making a plan of events for the day in advance. So anxiety will disappear, and you will be calmer and more interesting. For some eccentric couples, it is advisable to leave some wiggle room in the schedule. Being spontaneous at the right dosage can be a huge plus.
And finally, take this day as a holiday, appreciate the opportunity to be alone. Your partner will also be infected with this magical mood.
