Relationships don't always end with a wedding and kids. Sometimes men hit the living, leaving for another woman. There is pain and resentment in the soul, but the heart demands revenge.
Revenge is a cold dish
Left alone with yourself, you understand that the relationship was not so cloudless as it seemed before. Not only pleasant moments are remembered, but quarrels and scandals with which your nerves were significantly frayed. Now you understand how much pain and humiliation your former lover has brought you.
You should not commit rash acts, although the temptation is great. Indignation and a thirst for reckoning overwhelm you, but it is better to postpone the realization.
Great thoughts only come to a cold head.
So, think: is this man worth it at all for you to get your hands dirty about him, what he specifically annoyed you with, calculate all the moral damage incurred and only after that start developing a plan. Yes, exactly the plan - your actions must be precise and calm.
You shouldn't feel sorry for him. If you give a weakness even for a second, then completely abandon the conceived venture.
Get revenge on your ex: helpful tips
In war, all means are good, but you should not stoop to small dirty tricks: scratching the trunk of a car or ruining the front door. You will show yourself not in the best light, but in addition to everything else, you can be brought to administrative responsibility for hooliganism.
Start implementing your plan with internal changes. After parting with a loved one, girls fall into depression, they are indifferent to the whole world around them. Do not in any way become like them, being in a decadent mood. Motivate yourself: the better you look, the more surprised your ex will be based on the prevailing stereotypes.
Get better day by day and do not feel sorry for yourself. If you have only worn jeans before, change your look - complement your wardrobe with frivolous, feminine outfits. Correct your image, and most importantly - smile. Let him burst with anger, realizing that parting with him was only good for you.
You probably had some dreams, desires that you shared with your faithful. Now is the time to start implementing them. In any case, he will find out about your successes - through mutual acquaintances, perhaps even the media or social networks. It is important that he understands that everything is fine with you and that you are happy without his presence.
Do not withdraw into yourself - make new acquaintances. It is unlikely, of course, that a wedge knocks out a wedge, but you can distract yourself from sad thoughts, and you will also understand that other men also like you. And what could be better than showing off in front of your ex with a new handsome man?
Do not call him under any circumstances. Guys, breaking off relations, practice the ability to remain friends with an ex-girlfriend. It's a bullshit. Tell him that you need to rest, rethink something and stop all communication - this turn of events will certainly shock him.
Well, the cherry on top of your dessert will be the last conversation in which you, without screaming, seizures and emotions, let him know that you finally opened your eyes, and you realized how stupid you were before and simply did not notice that he was absolutely not worth you. This is the most painful and hard blow to male pride.
