Cheating on a man is an act that happens for any reason. To prevent cheating, you need to pay attention to your behavior.
Almost every woman thought about cheating on her husband. Some are caught with a mistress, others suspect, and still others believe that he cannot do it. Of course, it's good if such a topic is of concern only for its development, but if this has already happened, then you need to be able to recognize. Moreover, it can be prevented.
Cheating severely hurts the heart and drives you to rage. She is called the connection of a married man with any other woman except his wife. There are 2 types of betrayal:
- Constant treason. The connection did not happen by chance, it happens for a long time.
- Accidental betrayal. It was not planned and happened once.
Psychologists believe that the frequency of infidelity in men and women occurs in the same way. But only their reactions are different. For men, sex is a physical act, and for women, attachment. This means that cheating on your husband is very traumatic.
Men experience less emotion during intercourse. According to psychologists, certain types of men have a tendency to cheat:
- Macho. Such men want to constantly increase their importance. Their self-esteem rises from the attention of women. Macho men see cheating as a manifestation of strength.
- Sissy. Such a man has a dependence on his mother since childhood. In his youth, he has a bunch of complexes and he tries to assert himself by looking for mistresses.
- An aging ladies' man. These men are constantly trying to look younger. By cheating on his wife with a young woman, his self-esteem rises. This type of behavior occurs in men over 40.
- Justified by the status. Currently, a man who is in a high position, who does not have a mistress, can cause various suspicions, for example, he is sick, of the wrong orientation, etc.
In some cases, a man who does not belong to one of the above types may also cheat.
Reasons for cheating men
Everyone has long known the image of an ideal man who should have an athletic physique, take care of a woman, etc. And, it would seem, nothing else is needed for the happiness of a married couple, but this is not so.
Psychologists say that there are certain reasons for male infidelity:
- Emotional discomfort at home. Mostly men have to work hard. After which the man needs to have a good rest. If instead of rest, the wife reproaches and demands something, then betrayal is very close. A man will find a woman who will be grateful to him.
- Cheating wife. If a woman has cheated, then the man wants to answer her in kind.
- The wife became uninteresting. This case is not uncommon. Most of the attention is lost due to different interests. For example, a businessman is interested in management methods, while a woman prefers the topic of cooking.
Over time, common affairs disappear from the spouses, and they prefer only personal interests. Cheating for such a man is not meaningful and the sexual act becomes a technical process.
Also, a man's betrayal can occur due to insufficient attention of his beloved. Some types of wives are among the victims of male infidelity.
Which women are being cheated on
Why do some wives manage to live in happiness and joy, while others constantly experience betrayal? Psychologists say that the couple itself builds relationships and destroys, and the behavior of a woman can cause betrayal.
Men cheat on spouses who:
- Withdrawn from the family. Family is more than just cooking, a romantic evening, or watching TV. A real relationship begins with concessions, with decisions that will help relatives, with an understanding of the activities of the husband and children. If there is no mutual understanding, then betrayal occurs.
- Domineering. The spouse will not agree with the power of the woman over herself for a long time, but he will look to the left, and later go there.
- Fatal. Women who manipulate men, happiness leaves very soon. Cheating begins to appear.
To avoid such an incident in the family, a woman should pay attention to her behavior. It is important to remember that cheating cannot happen from scratch, there must be a reason.
