Everybody loves to receive gifts. And those people who deny this fact are simply dissembling. Pampering a loved one with gifts is a separate pleasure, because not only the gifted person, but also the giver himself, receives joy from this. Only now, not everyone is able to choose and present a gift correctly. Let's figure out how to give a gift to your loved one.
Instructions
Step 1
If we are talking about a general holiday, first give up the idea of giving a standard present. Take February 23, for example. In any case, your loved one will be given shampoos, shower gels and other soap accessories. Do not give gifts that get lost in the crowd. Make a more personal gift.
Step 2
It is better to give the same shower and bath products just like that. Do not wait for any reason to present your loved one with an inexpensive but necessary gift. This will show that you care for him. But first, make sure that your gift will be really useful, and will not take up shelf space until no one knows what time.
Step 3
Expensive gifts should not be given without a reason. Present a chic gift for your anniversary or other personal occasion. The birthday of a loved one is also one of those holidays when expensive gifts are appropriate. So you once again show and emphasize that your beloved is dear and close to you.
Step 4
Of course, in conditions of limited financial resources, it is not always possible to buy what one would like to give. But this is not a reason to buy low-quality cheap things for a loved one. It is better to choose a small but high-quality gift, one that you will not be ashamed to give.
Step 5
One of the practical options: go shopping with your loved one, but only when he himself decided to go shopping, and not when you suddenly wanted to raid boutiques. Let the man choose for himself what he needs, what he himself was going to purchase, and pay for the purchase instead of him. Just do not forget to say that this is a gift for him for a holiday. And speak loudly enough for the seller to hear. The opinion of others is important for men. It is unlikely that your man wants to be considered a gigolo.
Step 6
Give a gift from the heart. Sincerity and benevolence are expected from the donor. Do not give a gift in such a way as if you are doing your loved one a huge favor or endowing him with untold treasures, for which he should be grateful to you for the rest of his life. But there is no need to diminish the importance of the moment of presenting the gift.
Step 7
Don't ask for anything in return. The gift is good because it is presented free of charge. Otherwise, it will look like a gross manipulation that will only irritate your loved one. If you really want to ask for something, then do it later, in a day or two, while the gifted person still has fresh emotions from receiving a gift.
Step 8
Don't remind too often that you have given a gift. It is quite natural that you would like to hear more often how your loved one was pleased, how grateful he is and what a clever person you are, but after all, you did not give a present to amuse your vanity.
