A boring, outdated relationship is a heavy burden that requires a lot of vitality and emotions. It is not easy to put an end to a failed romance, especially if one of the partners does not want to say goodbye. But still, parting with a guy is necessary if you do not feel feelings for him and do not see a joint future.
It is necessary
a new hobby
Instructions
Step 1
Start gradually limiting contact with your boyfriend. Spend more time working or studying, referring to being busy. Emphasize that you want to rest in the evening and go to bed early. This method, perhaps, will make the young man understand that your career is more important to you. If you have a lot of free time and you cannot create the "appearance" of being busy, start visiting friends, parents, chatting in another company without your boyfriend.
Step 2
Try to gradually improve your boyfriend's love life if you feel that he is not in love with you. For example, introduce him to a cute friend and encourage them to chat frequently. Encourage his contacts with friends, their joint trips to nightclubs, country trips. So he will be able to meet another girl, and your separation will be painless.
Step 3
Have a serious conversation with your boyfriend. However, you should not start it without prior preparation. Find the right phrases, find arguments in favor of your breakup. You can even jot down a rough draft of your conversation and try to pronounce it. Think about the potential answers to the guy's questions. Do not start a conversation if you feel that your boyfriend is not capable of a constructive conversation at the moment.
Step 4
Think about how you will fill your life after breaking up. Regardless of the nature of your relationship, you may feel empty and alone after a breakup. Schedule in advance a list of important things to do, interesting trips, find new hobbies.
