A familiar situation, as in an old song, where a girl asks “a mountain ash to tell her heart which of the two guys is her destiny. If your heart cannot decide how to choose one of two guys, you need to turn to your mind. Psychologists advise to imagine a long life together with each of them.
Instructions
Step 1
Least of all deceive yourself with beauty and charm. Very often “charming girls are capricious egoists. But you want to be loved, not used.
Step 2
First of all, try to test the guys for sincerity. Because talking about love and loving are two different things. A loving person is more happy to give than take. That is, if a guy is able to sacrifice something for you, this is a plus in his favor. And if he tries to do everything as it is easier and more convenient for him, and you, in his opinion, should only happily agree, this is a clear minus.
Step 3
If you are unfamiliar with the parents of your boyfriends, then at least provoke the guys to talk about them. From information about a person's family, information about himself can be gleaned. For example, your boyfriend's dad is a wonderful father, he treats his wife with respect and love. Great! There is a chance that the son is the same. And if a young man has a tough patriarchy in his family, his father is not indifferent to alcohol, and even, God forbid, likes to “take a walk on the side, you should think about whether it is worth the risk. Although it happens that a son who sincerely loves his mother and watches his father's antics all his life acquires a strong immunity to this lifestyle.
Step 4
If from the behavior of your boyfriend it becomes clear that he is a submissive mama's son, he is used to the fact that his mother decides everything for him, and the mother just wants to decide everything for her son, then it is quite possible that she will do this even when son will have his own family. You are unlikely to like this.
Step 5
Another aspect worth considering is mutual tolerance. All people have their own characteristics in character and behavior. It is said that women marry those men whose shortcomings they can tolerate. Some women can easily live side by side with a man who, being able to make money for his family, did not hammer a single nail on his own. Others by “hands growing from the wrong place are ready to kill. Women, accustomed to perfect order in the house, usually find it difficult to put up with socks thrown anywhere.
Step 6
Compare the pros and cons of the guys who are getting your attention and make your choice. But do not forget to listen to your intuition at the same time - sometimes it is she who can tell you how to choose one of the two guys, the only one you need.
