The strangest and most unpredictable thing in the world is human relationships. Sometimes the situation goes to such extremes that it is very difficult to find a way out of it. What to do if you like more than one person, make a choice between two men?
Instructions
Step 1
If this happens, just accept it. There is absolutely no one to blame. Think about it, your men are not at all to blame for this, and neither are you. This is all the heart, which, as you know, cannot be ordered.
Step 2
The ideal option would, of course, be to put the relationship on hold - both. In the future, this will save you from unnecessary pangs of conscience and bouts of remorse for what you have deceived.
Step 3
Psychologists in such situations argue that a week should be enough for you to be able to decide who you need more, after weighing all the pros and cons. The main condition is that this week you should not see any man, calls, SMS and any other type of communication are also prohibited.
Step 4
If you do not have an analytical mindset and it is difficult for you to keep all the nuances in your head, a piece of paper will come to the rescue. Divide it into two parts and write down the merits of first one, and then the second man. Repeat the same operation with deficiencies. You will see - it will be easier to make the final choice.
Step 5
Psychologists say that a person can be best known by traveling with him. So, as an option, you can suggest the following: you spend the weekend on outings with your men, taking turns, of course. This should help you make your choice.
Step 6
Although in such matters neither psychologists nor fortune-tellers will help. Each woman herself must decide and make the final decision. If you have such a situation, and you do not know how to make a choice between two men, think about it. If there is something in each of them that makes you leave for another, then most likely you simply do not need any of them. He simply cannot give you everything you need. When you really meet that person, it won't even occur to you to choose between him and someone else.
Step 7
So if everything is not serious with you, and you are a risky person by nature, continue the relationship in the same spirit, without choosing anyone. Sooner or later, life itself will put everything in its place.
