Dating two guys at the same time is quite possible under certain conditions. For example, a meeting can go well if both young men are still only potential companions of the girl. And vice versa, if one of them has already bought wedding rings, hoping for a quick wedding, in the process of such a triple “date” various unforeseen events may arise, including not very pleasant ones.
Triple date - promiscuity or indecision?
You can arrange such a date in different ways - to meet with friends, at home, or choose your favorite place in the park, book a table in a cafe or buy cinema tickets. You can go hiking, at the same time checking the skills and capabilities of both guys, as well as their level of physical fitness and "ease of climbing." There are many opportunities, the choice of place and time depends only on the desire and budget of the participants.
To begin with, it is worth understanding the goals and desires of a girl who is thinking about arranging a date with two guys at the same time. According to psychologists, such thoughts are often visited by many women. Some suffer from their own indecision, leaving young people to determine the strongest for themselves - in such cases, such an idea can be explained by subconsciously manifested instincts, when a man received the right to marriage and procreation only as a result of tests.
However, sometimes the desire to organize a triple date can be evidence that none of the guys was able to really interest or captivate the girl. In other words, she does not see in any of them the future husband and father of her children, but by virtue of her character she is not averse to arranging a curious psychological experiment. According to scientists-psychologists, sometimes a person can reveal himself only in an extreme situation, showing what he is capable of. So here - having come on a date and seeing "his" girlfriend in the company of another man, not every young man, probably, can easily maintain composure.
Girls who decide on such a date should only be advised to try to weigh in advance how young people can behave. For example, if they have a quick temper and are quite young, that is, they are capable of rash actions, there may be a risk of a skirmish, which, in turn, is fraught with a showdown on fists. It should be noted that some girls, experiencing a craving for this kind of "thrill", often deliberately take risks, arranging a simultaneous date with two guys. Sometimes a person himself cannot say with absolute accuracy what his reaction will be to this or that event, therefore, when preparing for a triple meeting, it is necessary to take into account all possible risks.
You will chase two hares …
This option is also possible - a young man who will be the last to come on a date and see a “surprise” prepared by a girl may be embarrassed and leave without taking part in the meeting. Leaving, in addition to embarrassment, can be triggered by other feelings - anger, frustration, or unwillingness to communicate with the other guy. Or two young people, guessing what awaits them, can teach the experimenter a lesson by leaving the meeting place together.
If the triple date initiative comes from a guy, the girl should think about it - perhaps he is not in the mood to maintain a long and lasting relationship, wanting only to have fun. In some cases, a friend can thus help his companion who is in love, but cannot find an approach to his chosen one in any way in order to try to establish a relationship with her. However, if a man, whom the girl is already ready to introduce as a future husband, continues to insist on a triple date, this can be regarded as an occasion to think about the sincerity of his intentions.
On the other hand, it may happen that a young man in love simply cannot bear such a date, leaving forever. Perhaps this is for the better - all of a sudden the girl in the future would begin to experiment even more boldly, making him suffer … Courageous girls can only advise “turn the situation around”, that is, present their emotions if she was invited to such a date. Only instead of two guys there would be her beloved and rival.
