These days, couples are often created not in heaven, but on the Internet. Social networks provide an opportunity to meet girls regardless of the city of residence. What to write to a girl so as not to end up in an emergency? Simple five rules will help make online dating effective.
Rule 1. Take an interest in personality
Want to meet a girl on a social network and are already going to print "Hello"? Not! In no case. The most mediocre beginning of dating on the Internet - just write "Hello". This method will work only if you want to immediately get into an emergency.
Before sending a message, study the girl's page. Look at her avatars, at the saved pictures, at the posts on the wall, at the groups in which she is a member. Make up your mind about the personality of this person. And then come up with a greeting in which you write about what exactly attracted you. Check out unusual photo ideas. Or say that you are also fond of Brodsky's poetry, if there are reposts of his poems on its wall. Show the girl that you are familiar with her page and that she interests you as a person before you write.
Rule 2. Be an interesting conversationalist
It's not difficult at all! Remember, if you wrote first, then you are also looking for topics of conversation. To begin with, you can tell a little about yourself and ask the girl about her. You don't have to go deeper, ask serious questions and ask the girl about her past relationship. It is best to focus on hobbies. Usually people like to talk about a hobby. Show a sincere interest in her studies, try to find common interests.
Maintain a balance: you cannot only talk about yourself, but the girl does not need to arrange an interrogation. It will be better if you tell a little about yourself, and then ask the girl a question.
It is always good to end your messages with a question - it means that the girl will not have to painfully come up with a subject for the next message. Therefore, the likelihood that she will answer you increases.
A sense of humor is a good helper for those who want to meet online. It has been proven that laughter brings people together.
Rule 3. Don't bother
Scribbling message after message all day long is a bad idea. Set aside about an hour a day to chat online. Do not disappear unexpectedly - before you go offline, say goodbye to the girl and agree on the next time you write off.
Rule 4. Surround with attention
Girls love caring guys, and girls on the internet are no exception. Be sincerely interested in how she is doing, what her mood is, wish good morning and good night.
Rule 5. Forward - in real life
It is very good if you have the opportunity to meet in real life. Do not delay the first meeting. But take your time. Before you start, make sure that communication on the social network is interesting for both of you. Are you convinced? Then go ahead!
What not to do
- Arrange interrogation immediately - we have already spoken about this. You have nice communication on the social network, and not at all a meeting in the investigator's office.
- To approach sharply. In the second message, they already wrote that you want to marry her and ask what you will call your first son? In vain, a girl can get scared and send you to ignore.
- Constantly disappear from online. No one will like it if the interlocutor abruptly breaks off the conversation, does not read the messages or reply after a week or even a year.
- Demand a real meeting right now. Many girls need time before deciding to meet a guy in real life.
- Complaining about your problems. Even if you have their carriage and a small cart, save them for your friends. Don't dump everything on the girl you just met.
- Be obsessive. Everything is good in moderation, do not bother the girl with your messages.
Follow these simple rules and you will succeed!
