Are they not enthusiastic about the prospect of spending a lot of time playing with a child? A few tricks will change the situation. Use the non-standard approach and methods recommended by child psychologists, and you will enjoy playing with your child.
Instructions
Step 1
Think about what ways you like to spend time with your child. Maybe you enjoy role-playing, expressive reading, or drawing. So offer this to the baby. Play with strength and displeasure is not worth it. The child feels your lack of interest and attributes it not to games, but to his own. That is, he thinks he is not interesting to the parent.
Step 2
Sometimes it can be difficult to come up with a game on the go, especially if you're tired or not in the mood. If a child gives you toys, dolls and asks you to play with him, start playing any fairy tale or cartoon. It doesn't take a lot of internal resources to follow a ready-made and well-known scenario.
Step 3
Use games for good. Of course, they are already useful for children, they develop their imagination and motor skills. But you can go further and use games for educational purposes. Remember what situation with your baby upset you and replay his behavior and your reaction. Let the child observe his actions, the consequences of them and the response in the game. Perhaps this will help him adjust his behavior.
Step 4
With the help of games, you can not only improve behavior, but also save the child from fears and complexes, as well as find out what worries him, what happens to him in kindergarten and how he sits in family relationships. Ask him to act out a scene with a teacher, mom, dad, grandmother, friends, and you can learn a lot.
