The character of the child manifests itself already in childhood. And different children go to kindergarten, each with its own character. Persistent children who feel confident in new circumstances will find it much easier to get used to and adapt to a new situation. But children who are timid and shy in new unusual conditions feel even more insecure. But even such a child must be taken to kindergarten. And parents need to try to do everything possible so that the kindergarten does not become a heavy punishment for such a child.
The problem with these guys is basically being too upset about any failure. But they do not value their success so highly. And it is in this direction that the work of parents should be directed. Improve the mood of the baby, set him up in a positive way, form a positive attitude towards kindergarten, to his comrades. It is also important to teach the child not to dwell on his failures, but even better to laugh at them.
All of this cannot be taught like the multiplication table by sitting and memorizing. These qualities are formed gradually. And the main incentive is the parents' own example. In the morning, when preparing for kindergarten, parents should not think about their plans for the day and how they can do everything. Parents should remember that for a child this is not just routine getting up and getting dressed, this is a whole big deal, and an even more grandiose event follows - a whole day in kindergarten, without mom and dad. For a timid child, this is a whole day of work, and not at the most beloved job.
Parents should maintain a light and cheerful mood of the child from the very morning. You can tell him some funny poems or stories on the way to the kindergarten. Or you can compose these stories with your child. Arriving at the kindergarten, parents should pay attention to how nice, cozy, fun and so on here. And this needs to be constantly emphasized so that the child takes it for granted. After all, parents are still the most important people in his life and their opinion is important to him.
When parents come to pick up the child from kindergarten, do not scold him for a dirty T-shirt, shorts or tousled braids. Shy children have already scolded themselves inside much more than their parents. There is no need to add experiences to them. Better to laugh at this in a friendly way, remember some cute rhyme on this topic. But we must remember that laughter with the words: "Well, you are dirty" - can hardly be called friendly.
