The popular You tube site is replete with videos filmed within the walls of educational institutions. But the video demonstrates far from educational successes of the younger generation. Some schoolchildren post videos of fights and public humiliation, while others, without hesitation, put a “like”, thereby confirming that, for example, three of us attack one is cool. In order not to suddenly appear in such a video as a victim, you need to know some rules of behavior.
“Any dispute can be resolved with words,” says the mother to the Kid in the cartoon about Carlson. However, sometimes the words simply do not have time to escape from the lips - the student can suddenly be knocked down.
The principle: “They don’t hit someone lying down” does not work in the harsh realities of school life. They beat, and how. Therefore, the first rule of survival is to get back on your feet by all means. You can use any distracting maneuver: for example, do not shout: "Ay, it hurts!" (this will only aggravate the situation), but: "Atas, cops!" or something like that.
Second rule: be able to defend yourself. Cruelty is a primitive instinct, and, accordingly, one should defend against cruelty by instincts (in this case, it is the instinct of self-preservation): biting, scratching, grabbing by the hair, pressing fingers on the eyeballs, and so on.
It will not be superfluous to enroll in self-defense courses. The main direction should be the development of the skills to get out of the grip, fall correctly, beat the opponent with a blow, catch and neutralize the opponent's hand brought in for the blow (with or without a weapon), etc.
The third rule: do not hesitate to run away at the first opportunity. Whatever the physical capabilities of the child, it is quite problematic to cope with the crowd alone.
Fourth rule: be active in communication and not be afraid to make new friends. As a rule, singles are beaten most often. This is called “victim syndrome”, when a child subconsciously sets himself up against the crowd: “I am not like everyone else,” “I am not interesting to peers,” etc. Such behavior comes from wrong family relationships - overstated exactingness, inappropriate criticism of parents.
A sociable and popular schoolboy also arouses envy and a desire to overthrow the pet from the podium, but the aggressors are afraid to throw out their anger on him, because they know that he has friends. So, the more loyal friends, the better.
Fifth rule: value your honor, life and health. No one has the right to humiliate human dignity and cause physical / moral damage. Self-confidence and self-confidence is the key to victory in any business.
