Almost every family has periods of cooling feelings. If at such moments your wife begins to behave suspiciously: staying late in the evenings, going to another room when talking on the phone and hiding her cell phone - you have cause for concern.
Should you check your wife's mobile secretly?
A mobile phone is a personal item. By secretly checking your wife's cell phone, you not only insult her with your mistrust, but also humiliate yourself with such an indecent act.
You can take your spouse's phone without her noticing it. Think about how you will react to the results you get. Will you calm down if you don't find anything suspicious or if you regularly browse your mobile? Your mistrust can seriously undermine even your wife's most sincere love.
Also, in the spouse's phone, you can find suspicious SMS or frequent calls to a subscriber with a male name. In the first case, you have good reason to worry. But don't jump to conclusions. Your spouse may be flirting, but she's not even thinking about cheating. To bring any charges against your spouse, you will have to admit that you checked her phone. In this case, you will have to make excuses for your behavior. Therefore, checking your cell phone, most likely, will not only not clarify the situation, but will only confuse it even more.
Talk frankly
If you are suspicious of your spouse's behavior, talk to her. Discuss your problems, decide if you want to be together. You can learn much more from a frank conversation than from a spouse's phone.
You can ask your wife to show you her cell phone. Most likely, it will offend her. However, if she has nothing to hide, she will let you read all the SMS and check the call list. In this case, be prepared to apologize for distrust and groundless suspicions. If your wife refuses to show you her phone, you should be wary. There may be several reasons for not giving you a cell phone. First, she is offended at you and wants to annoy you. Secondly, perhaps she wrote something unpleasant about you to her friend. For example, she said that you pay little attention to her. If your spouse is shy about telling you this directly, she won't want you to read it on her phone. Thirdly, it is possible that other people's secrets are stored in her phone. Her friends might have shared secrets with her that you shouldn't know. Finally, there may be confirmation of her inappropriate behavior on her phone.
Even if your spouse gave you her phone and you didn't find anything suspicious there, it doesn't matter. If a woman wants to hide something, she will not leave obvious evidence. Therefore, checking your mobile will not give you any guarantees. At the same time, a strong quarrel after your request is practically guaranteed to you.
