How often can you witness a situation when upset parents pull a restless and disobedient child down the street. Almost all children go through a period of awareness of their individuality, demonstrating their disobedience to others. The task of parents is to help the child during this period to understand that adults only wish him well.
Instructions
Step 1
Talk to your child more often about what can and cannot be done, teach him the established norms of behavior.
Step 2
Before you demand something from your baby, teach him how to do it. Do this with your child for a period of time until you are sure that he has learned.
Step 3
Tell your child clearly about the punishment that awaits him if he does not obey the requests of the parents. Keep your promises of punishment, otherwise you won't be able to make your child obedient. If a child notices that adults do not keep their word and forgive him for disobedience, he continues to be self-willed.
Step 4
Choose the most appropriate time to talk with your child about his behavior. At the moment of communication, the child should be calm, for example, such a moment can be while bathing the child or walking with him.
Step 5
In matters concerning the child, give him a choice. For example, he can choose what he will have breakfast with from two options. Thus, he will understand that you do not have a goal to control and limit him in everything. This approach will help make the child obedient, it will become easier for the child to adequately perceive parental requests.
Step 6
When communicating with your child, choose a tone in which it will be easier for the child to settle down to attentive communication and obedience. Swap out irritability for politeness, this way you will get rid of many of the problems associated with the child's behavior. Kindness and affection can work wonders for your child.
Step 7
So that a child immersed in his thoughts can hear you, before starting a conversation, take his hand, stroke him, look into his eyes and calmly express your request.
Step 8
Put your child to bed no later than 10 pm. If he goes to bed later, the likelihood is too great that the next day he will be moody and less obedient.
Step 9
Show reasonable love for your child, do not indulge his whims. Determine a common line of behavior in the family so that one of the parents is not angry and greedy in the eyes of the child, and the other is loved and reliable.
