If you ask your parents the question, "Is your son fighting?", They will answer "Yes." Everything is simple here - acts of child aggression are simply inevitable and the same. Let's talk about the aggression of children from birth to three.
Pull yourself together, even though it is very difficult, and try to understand what your child needs.
At the age of one to three years, the manifestation of aggression is more varied, because aggression can be expressed in the form of a shout, a fight or a crash. Especially often you can see how the child beats the mother because she forbids him to do something. How to respond to a child's mother's fight?
Turn away and move away from the child, make an offended look and ignore your baby for a while; if there is another adult who witnessed the fight, he should approach his mother and take pity on her, while also ignoring the child; Explain that mom is offended when her beloved son or daughter beats her. Don't worry if the child is too small to speak, use intonation.
The reasons for any fight between children can be: attracting attention from parents, natural conflicts between children. If you know that your child is not a fighter, react immediately, and if you are sure that the forces are equal, then it is better not to interfere.
If we talk about the destruction of objects, then your child in this way, perhaps, learns the world. For example, he broke a toy in order to see her device, and he did it with rage because she did not want to understand.