Every girl believes that life with her future chosen one will be like in a fairy tale - long and happy. However, reality often turns out to be less cloudless, because it is not for nothing that they say that the boat of love easily breaks down on everyday life. Quarrels over trifles, the struggle for supremacy can destroy even the strongest relationships. How can you save love and become an ideal couple?
Instructions
Step 1
Find compromises. In a relationship between two people, it is impossible to avoid a clash of opinions, disagreement on any issues, sometimes misunderstanding. Of course, you do not need to accumulate negative emotions in yourself, fearing, having expressed your point of view, start a quarrel. But it is worth learning to express your irritation, anger or resentment so as not to offend your loved one. Avoid non-constructive arguments that often escalate into ugly scandals. Negative assessments, nagging, raised voices, and, moreover, insults, will not help to understand the problem, but will only aggravate it. Another important point is to sort things out only one-on-one. After all, a careless word spoken in the presence of a stranger hurts much more. And starting "debriefing" with relatives, you run the risk of turning a petty quarrel into a big family scandal.
Step 2
Have your own interests and hobbies. It is believed that a prerequisite for an ideal relationship is the complete similarity of interests between men and women. But it is not so. Of course, similar religious and political views will only strengthen the couple. It is also important that you look at the future of your relationship in the same way, have a similar approach to raising children, and the distribution of roles in the family. However, everyone should have a piece of personal space, those very interests and hobbies. For a woman, this is an opportunity to be distracted, relax, realize the desire for beauty, which is why most women's hobbies are aimed at making something: knitting, soap making, embroidery. A man is looking for another area for self-realization in his favorite hobby, so the representatives of the stronger sex are striving for success here too. In addition, this is an opportunity to spend time in the company of like-minded people.
Step 3
Pay special attention to the sensual side of the relationship. This is one of the pillars on which the love union rests. After all, by denying a man intimacy, you are denying him your love. Understand yourself, maybe you are too tired? Then it is better to share household chores with your beloved, promising to thank him for his help at night. For couples who have problems in their intimate life, psychologists recommend making sex one of their own schedule items, just like going to the gym or getting a manicure. The main thing is to strictly adhere to this schedule, despite headaches, drowsiness and other reasons. And soon the plan will be overfulfilled!
