It just so happened that for various reasons, women have lovers. This may be due to lack of attention from the husband, sexual dissatisfaction, etc. In any case, it is desirable that this remain in the strictest confidence.
Make sure your lover is a reliable person before starting a serious romance with him. Try to understand what he really needs from you. Sometimes you come across vile people who, over time, for example, can start extorting money for their silence. Therefore, do not immediately tell where you live and work, as well as who your husband is.
Hide any lover's contacts: numbers in the phone book, addresses and pages on the Internet, etc. If you cannot remember them, then improvise: indicate in the form of female names, employee positions, etc.
Agree with your lover on what days and hours he can call or write. To do this, you need to thoroughly know the husband's work schedule, the schedule of his meetings, conferences, business trips, so that he does not accidentally come home at a piquant moment.
Think of situations that will allow you to call your lover even while your husband is at home: to call, you can, for example, go out on the stairs (under the pretext of smoking or throwing out the trash). And in order to meet, tell your husband that you are going to the store, to the antenatal clinic or on some other not suspicious business.
Do not date your lover near your home or in public places. Not only can you accidentally run into your husband, but passers-by can be suspicious of a woman who appears with one man or another, and inform your spouse about it.
Choose suitable dates. These can be those cafes, cinemas and shops that your spouse or acquaintances will definitely not look into. It is advisable that they are located as far from the house as possible, if possible in a different area.
Keep your adventures a closely guarded secret. Only two people should know the secret: you and the lover. You can't even tell your best friends about her. You can never know in advance whether you can trust a person, whether everything will remain a secret or not.
