The situation in which an unmarried woman succumbs to the courtship of an unfree man and they begin a vivid love relationship is as old as the world. Quite often, such a relationship over time leads to the fact that the mistress becomes pregnant from her married admirer. What should a woman do in such a situation?
Instructions
Step 1
Be prepared for the man to end your relationship. If a child that a woman carries under her heart is desirable, then she should mentally prepare in advance for the fact that the child's father will not take special part in the care and upbringing of his son or daughter. In the overwhelming majority of cases, a man sooner or later breaks up with a mistress who is pregnant or has given birth to a child from him, because from a holiday woman she turns into a second wife, whose existence, in addition to everything, also needs to be hidden from friends and colleagues.
Step 2
A pregnant woman from a married lover needs to think in advance about how she will provide for her child and who will help her with him. Perhaps parents or friends could sometimes stay with the baby for some time so that the woman had the opportunity to do everything. It is unlikely that a married lover will be delighted with the prospect of rocking a crying baby day and night, and a woman should admit this sad fact as early as possible.
Step 3
Don't try to force your man to stay with you by using your pregnancy as an excuse to do so. Sometimes a woman thinks that, having become pregnant, she will be able to "tie" her lover to her and thereby take him away from the family. In no case should you count on this and use pregnancy as a means in order to get your loved one into your sole possession. Most likely, such a woman will join the army of single mothers and will be unhappy, like an innocent child she does not want.
Step 4
Having decided by all means to give birth to a child from this particular man, accept the fact that most likely you will have to part. No matter how much your married lover swears his love to you, having a child outside the family is a huge problem for him, and he will have to make a choice in such a situation. Perhaps the child's father will not want to help you even financially, and you will have to defend your rights and the rights of your child in court. Think in advance if you are ready to go through all this, because when the child is born, there will be no way back.
