Many young girls give their love and affection to the wrong guys with whom they will have a life in the future. Then they expect the baby in loneliness and melancholy, because the future dad immediately disappears. They are also left without support and the money that is needed for the child. Some girls get discouraged and decide to leave the baby in the hospital.
Women are forced to abandon their children for various reasons. Someone does this because of a lack of money, someone is afraid of the anger of parents because of the birth of a child by a single mother, someone is embarrassed to condemn others, someone is angry with the baby's father and is not going to look at his offspring all his life and remember the unfortunate dad.
What is the future of abandoned children
It is very good if, at the time when the baby enters the baby's house, other dad and mom come for him. If not, like many others, an orphanage or a street awaits him. However, I really want to believe that his mother, together with close relatives, will change her mind and take her child out of there. If this does not happen, the child will grow up in an orphanage without parental love and affection. How will he feel among adults and peers? How will he enter adulthood? And will he find a job to his liking? Currently, social institutions arrange such children in a foster family. But whether this baby will get into it is still unknown, and how he will live there - too.
Many children, even older ones, have not yet learned to take responsibility and independently purchase things and products. Therefore, it will be very difficult for them.
Life difficulties
Experts believe that unemployment and difficult living conditions are to blame. Many young women simply do not have money and housing. The state sometimes helps them by taking the child to a special institution for some time. When mothers find support and their lives are getting better, they can write a statement and pick up their baby. Before the expiration of this period, mothers have the right to visit their children at a certain time and take care of them, buying toys, clothes and many other things.
How happy children and staff are when the mother comes for the baby. You need to see it with your own eyes.
For this, the departments of guardianship and trusteeship of some cities published a project, calling it "Mother's Day". The end of this holiday can only be that one of the "cuckoos" comes to their senses and takes their child. Of course, this event becomes an ordinary miracle. But how I want to believe and hope the staff working with children in orphanages that the kids will still return to the family. Experts say that this is rare. Most likely, cute and healthy children are adopted.
Yes, parents are not chosen. And in the event that a mother abandons her children, they are left with a baby house, an orphanage and that family in which they will feel mother's love and affection - a foster family. Think about it, do not leave your children, no matter how hard it is for you!
