Recognition is a pretty delicate moment. After taking a step forward, you will no longer be able to step back or pretend that it was a joke. It will also be impossible to prevent the consequences that will not be long in coming. And they can be very different. A person may simply not understand you, be frightened and not reciprocate, but it may be the other way around - your confession will untie his hands. And you will receive recognition in return. Nobody can predict this in advance. Therefore, you should prepare well before talking about your feelings.
Instructions
Step 1
It is necessary to study the person more closely. Find out what he likes, with whom he communicates, what he enjoys. Study carefully his behavior, his communication style, in general, everything, everything that at least somehow concerns him.
Try not to frighten off with your persistence, this can lead to the fact that they will just start to avoid you and find you annoying. Getting to know each other better will take a lot of time and effort, so be patient and keep finding out.
If you want to not only confess your feelings, but also receive recognition in return, it is better to attract interest to yourself gradually. Observe how this person treats you, maybe some signs of attention are also emanating from him, or, on the contrary, he ignores you.
Step 2
A very good move is to get interested in the hobbies of the person you like. You have to be genuinely passionate about his hobby in order to understand how he lives. This will give you additional points of contact.
You can try to bond with mutual friends, if you have any. If they are not there, get acquainted with his comrades, the common company brings them very close. And only when you become close enough (we are not talking about intimacy yet), you can talk about your feelings. If you are still embarrassed to directly say that you like a person, write a letter, sms message or send a message via the Internet and wait.
Step 3
Regardless of how you confess your feelings, in no case demand an immediate answer. After all, you yourself decided to confess to a person, and it is not at all necessary that they will immediately reciprocate you. Indeed, more often than not, such a recognition comes as a surprise, a person is simply lost and does not know how to behave in the current situation.
