Men, even great conspirators, sometimes come across, and most often on trifles. And women are conducting detailed investigations with fear. They find out with anxiety - who, where, with whom and why, trying to recognize male infidelity. It is easy to ruin a relationship with suspicion, but it is difficult to restore trust.
Instructions
Step 1
First, decide what you will do with the truth if your man is really cheating. After all, then there will be a choice - to continue the relationship or to part. Think about how independent you are psychologically and whether you are ready to change a lot. Calculate whether you can be financially independent, or your personal income does not even allow you to even have your own home. If you have children, think that you may have to "pull" them alone, it often happens that families do not see not only material, but also moral support from their former spouses. If you are ready to learn the bitter truth, take action.
Step 2
Keep in mind that almost all men who cheat feel guilty. This means that your man may unknowingly try to make amends. Sudden gifts, attention, previously uncharacteristic responsiveness. Of course, you should not consider all this as a mandatory sign of treason. Maybe he just read some article about family relationships and decided to please you. However, if he generally behaves strangely, atypically, this is a reason to think.
Step 3
You have to be observant and chronicle treason systematically, not from time to time. It's one thing if you just saw a man with another in the park, it's another thing - you have established that they meet every Monday in a friend's apartment. Notice small details and find matches. Usually the latter means that not everything is clean.
Step 4
Be careful in your actions. Do not use overtly forbidden techniques. The private detective you hired can sell information for a higher price, an email hack is not so easy to hide, and if you are caught reading messages on his phone, it will be very difficult for you to make excuses. And it will be even more difficult to restore the relationship, especially if you really find evidence of treason. It's not worth the risk. Better, as befits a smart woman, to use analytical skills and comparison of facts. And most importantly, look for the reason that your loved one has ceased to perceive you as the only woman in his life.
