Many representatives of the fair sex react quite categorically to the acute question of her husband's infidelity. In the future, the unfortunate, caught on a hot, is waiting for a showdown, tantrums, divorce, and sometimes self-harm in the literal sense of the word.
But how to figure out the scoundrel, after all, he is not caught - not a thief, and he is probably in no hurry to repent of his sins and continues to indulge in vices with pleasure?
Money
The first and most obvious sign that a husband is cheating is a hole in the household budget. The money suddenly suddenly ceased to be enough and it is not known where they could go. Track all credit and debit card transactions, estimate your average monthly budget, and correlate it with your spouse's salary. The costs of restaurants, candy, and bouquets for “his washcloth” tend to catch your eye when you look more closely. Paradoxically, but true: close surveillance of men's cash can do more than detective surveillance of the man himself.
Phone and Internet
Has a certain "Misha Garage" started calling your man regularly in the evenings and sending a bunch of SMS? It's time to be on your guard: it is quite possible that Masha and the negligee are hiding behind Misha and the garage. Copy the number and check the profile of this user in messengers. If from the user's photo it is not an overgrown man who is looking at you, but a kitten or a bouquet of flowers, then we have not very good news for you. Also pay attention to who and where your spouse is calling - printouts of calls and SMS to help you. Further, it is already a matter of technology.
For new girlfriends, it is worth monitoring all existing social networks of the suspect. As a rule, men are sentimental and tend to add their passions as friends and like them, leave comments and even repost something from their pages. Do not forget to look into your husband's profile itself - suddenly there is something really worthwhile in your personal correspondence. But remember, this is a violation of personal boundaries that you may not be forgiven.
Behavior
It's not just late work delays - your husband can also date his mistress during lunchtime. The point is in his attitude towards you, which often changes in cheating men. Is he not jealous anymore? Not paying attention to the fact that you dyed pink, shaved your skull baldly, changed your gender and orientation? Or maybe, on the contrary, he strenuously praises you and overwhelms you with gifts for no reason? Houston, you have a problem. Usually, men who are sincerely interested in a partner in adultery tend to pay more attention to her person, while performing masterful distractions towards their wife.
