Why men cheat is a question that excites almost all women's minds. Sometimes even very strong and ideal couples break up, this happens immediately, as soon as the fact that the husband has a mistress was made public. Why do men cheat, and who is to blame for male cheating?
It's not a secret for anyone that a good half of men do not want to get married, and then a woman goes to various tricks, up to an unplanned pregnancy, in order to bind her beloved to herself more strongly. Naturally, the appearance of a "third superfluous" does not fit into the woman's plans for a brighter future, because the mistress is a threat to family relations.
To the question: "?" does it have multiple answers:
- to return the departed youth. The more years they have lived together, the more responsibility lies on the shoulders of a man, they must not only provide for the family, but also constantly improve the territory they occupy. In such a pursuit of money, men sometimes just want to relax and then she appears, young and beautiful, meeting with whom, the man rests in body and soul. Having experienced a long-forgotten sensation, the man again hurries to his family;
- enhance sexual sensations. Few women look the same at home as they do in public. Lack of hairstyle, old stretched clothes, eternal affairs and chores for her husband practically does not have time. And if we take into account the fact that a man sees this woman every day, then it is quite difficult to maintain attraction;
- moral satisfaction. The beginning romance makes the heart beat faster, there is a surge of adrenaline, this feeling you want to experience more and more often. This is why men often change one mistress for another to experience those exciting romantic moments again;
- the appearance of a person is ready to listen. Few wives are able to set aside time in their usual cleaning routine - cooking - forget about children to sit next to their husband and hear about his problems and sorrows. And not every man is ready to share them within the family. And then a mistress appears again, not so much for sexual pleasures, but in order to listen and regret, because it is the “third extra” who is able to accept a man with all his problems, worries and worries;
- a feeling of pity. Sometimes freelance situations bring two strangers closer together, most often they are work colleagues. First, there is a feeling of pity, you want to support and caress the upset person, gradually such moral relations move to a new level - intimate.
Often, unfaithful husbands blame their wife for their adultery, yes, it was the one who cooked dinner and washed shirts, took care of the house and raised the children. Why? Yes, because she always does not have time for conversations, for sex, for going to the movies and restaurants, and so on.
- fell in love, could not cope with the temptation;
- she is to blame, that "third extra", it was she who carried away and seduced;
- wanted to take revenge on his wife for betrayal;
- the presence of a mistress is a confirmation of a high social status and this does not affect family relations in any way;
- tired of the same type of familiar family life.
Often, men begin to deny and deny the presence of a mistress.
It is difficult to imagine how a woman will react to the fact of betrayal. Sometimes cheating only helps to consolidate family relationships, and sometimes it destroys them completely. Before taking the decisive step, you need to decide for yourself what to do next: go hand in hand or separate roads.
