There are several signs that indicate the emergence of feelings of guilt, detachment. When cheating, habits and character traits change dramatically. Secrets, changes in sexual life may appear.
Psychologists, psychotherapists say that when cheating, male behavior changes greatly. Rarely does a spouse manage to hide the fact of the appearance of a mistress. A woman's lack of such knowledge is her choice, her unwillingness to take into account those small “signals” that her husband begins to give. It is also worth considering the fact that only a few representatives of the stronger sex know how to lie so believably so as not to betray themselves. There are 11 signs, in the presence of which one can assume the fact of treason.
1. Forgetfulness and fatigue
A man forgets about important dates for a couple. It can be a day of acquaintance or a wedding. Even the birthday of a once beloved girl should be reminded. May stop wearing the ring or take it off periodically. The intimate life is becoming more scarce, which is explained by fatigue, problems at work.
Lack of sexual desire is the clearest sign of having a mistress. Sometimes the process becomes monotonous, without foreplay, intercourse ends very quickly.
2. Unusual behavior
Changes also occur in normal interaction with a woman. Depending on the temperament and attitudes, behavior changes dramatically. If a woman is to blame for treason, in the opinion of a man, then he becomes irritable, aggressive. In a situation where a man has the opinion that treason is on his conscience, the spouse becomes very gentle and caring. Sometimes behavior changes dramatically from kind and affectionate to aggressive and evil.
3. Criticism of a woman
In most cases, the representatives of the stronger sex try to shift the responsibility for their behavior onto the woman. They begin to criticize at every opportunity, find fault with all the little things. They begin to reproach even the smallest mistakes. Basically, this happens in order to be able to justify yourself in your own eyes. This behavior distracts the attention of the wife or girlfriend from their own shortcomings.
4. Jealousy and calculation
A cheating man often believes that his woman has ceased to be faithful to him. He starts:
- read messages on your phone and social networks;
- looks through your diary every day;
- examines contacts in the phone book.
However, he does not allow his companion to do the same. If she still gets to the phone, then the list of messages turns out to be empty. New names of men with names close to women may appear in the phone book.
5. Talking on the phone
One of the clear signs of infidelity is telephone conversations in another room. During this time, the man tries to retire, and then, when asked about who the dialogue took place with, he begins to behave aggressively or is simply silent. Calls can also be made at night. Often at this time of day, SMS comes, to which a man can reply that this is just a message with a balance.
6. Changes in appearance
With infidelity, men are more sensitive to their appearance. They start to cut their hair more often, they can change the style of clothes. New hobbies often appear, for example, going to the gym, swimming. He has new bright shirts, watches and wallets. At the same time, a representative of the stronger sex will react badly to comments and questions about changing style.
7. New habits
Women may notice that new words have appeared in the lexicon. They can be characteristic when a companion communicates with another girl. Other habits also change, for example, the brand of cigarettes, shampoo, eau de toilette. You may notice that the young man began to behave more relaxed in public, flirting appears.
8. Lack of romance
When cheating, a man begins to slowly "delete" a woman from his life. He no longer strives to introduce you to his friends. This happens not only because there is a desire to spend time separately. There is a fear that a woman will accidentally find out from third parties about a new relationship.
9. The smell of another woman
You may find that your spouse regularly smells of someone else's perfume. Sometimes a man suddenly starts taking a shower right after work. This is worth paying attention to if there have been no such changes in the past. You may notice other people's hair on the clothes, traces of lipstick, scratches.
10. The emergence of new positions in bed
This is not about the fact that your companion decided to diversify your relationship. New poses appear, and all actions are bold and confident. The impression of craftsmanship can be created. When asked who taught this, the representatives of the stronger sex usually answer with irritation. At the same time, certain rituals can disappear from life, for example, a kiss in the morning or before leaving for work.
11. Minor gifts
They are usually not perceived as a sign of cheating. Therefore, regular minor presentations need to be looked at in a complex. If you feel that there is no romance in this action, then in most cases it indicates a sense of guilt. According to men, gifts are a good way to clear their conscience.
