A rare family can boast of impeccable loyalty to a husband and wife. This is the flip side of almost any romantic union. A rival or rival can get in the way of a once strong alliance. And then the safety of the family may be at risk. Aware is armed. Therefore, do not rely too much on sweet ignorance. Sometimes a traitor should be called to account, and for this you need to know the signs of treason.
Imaginary signs of treason
Those who suspect their soul mate of treason should be very careful. Groundless suspicions can significantly harm family relationships, which is why it is so important to know what signs of cheating are imaginary.
The most common imaginary signs of cheating are:
- a sharp decrease in sex drive;
- increased irritability;
All these signs are united by the fact that each of them can provoke a huge number of reasons. If a husband or wife suddenly ceases to be interested in sex, this may be due to great fatigue, emotional problems at work, and elementary financial turmoil. And that's not to mention health problems.
Increased irritability can hardly be an unambiguous sign of cheating. As a rule, cheating men do not show any dissatisfaction with their spouse in order to make up for their guilt in front of her.
Stealth can also be associated with a variety of reasons. And treason is far from the most obvious.
Signs of cheating on her husband
Signs of treason are clearly divided by gender. Men have a different attitude to their family mission, so in the case of an affair on the side, his behavior will be special.
A man who changes is always betrayed by a radical change in his attitude to his appearance. If the husband suddenly began to monitor his waist, went on a diet or abruptly went in for sports, he probably wants to become attractive to someone.
The same goes for the wardrobe. Instead of an old flannel shirt, the husband suddenly began to wear stylish fitted suits? Apparently, he has become more scrupulous about his appearance or is deliberately trying to be more attractive to someone in particular.
The husband used to brush his teeth with a scandal, and now he has become a pedantic hygiene maniac? Perhaps he does all this for someone.
Another sign of male infidelity is sudden signs of attention towards his wife. It can be flowers "just like that", a set of new linen or a completely new smell of eau de toilette. A cheating man is often tormented by a sense of views in front of his faithful, therefore, he seeks to compensate his behavior as much as possible with gifts and signs of attention. By the way, gifts often carry the shadow of a fatal traitor. Lingerie is exactly like hers, perfume with a rich floral scent. If the gifts suddenly stopped responding to the tastes of the wife, but, on the contrary, began to show the style of another woman, this is an occasion to take a closer look at the behavior of the husband.
Signs of cheating wife
The attitude of women towards adultery is completely different. The fair sex, having an affair on the side, always try to be the most attentive wives for their husbands.
Therefore, if a wife suddenly, for no apparent reason, began to show excessive concern for her husband, it is inappropriate to say compliments and, in general, play on vanity, you should take a closer look at her behavior. It is possible that in this way a woman simply wants to avert her eyes from her sin on the side.
Another clear sign is the constant comparison of the husband's behavior and habits with the way the spouses of friends behave. “But Masha's husband earns three times more than you. This is what I understand a man,”- if every morning begins with such phrases, the wife probably stopped seeing her husband as a support and has already looked after someone better for herself.
Perhaps the most obvious sign of female infidelity is the emerging expensive gifts.They are often blamed on gifts from friends and parents. Wives, as a rule, are very careful, and it will be difficult to declassify the cover - probably the acquaintances have already been notified of the deception and will not betray the traitor to the spouse.
Suddenly emerging workaholism is another clear sign of cheating. If her wife’s work was not particularly fascinating to her before, and lately there are more and more overwork and shifts on weekends, it is likely that the reason for such zeal is not career achievements, but a light affair.