The reason for the pathological greed of a man can be the example of his dad, who in childhood tried to limit his family in everything, innate selfishness, complexes, uncertainty that the relationship with his partner would be long-term. In any case, you cannot hope that your partner will change and suddenly become generous after saving up for a car (apartment, furniture, computer).
An alliance with a greedy and stingy man is an unbearable burden for most women. In such a marriage, not only the wife suffers, but also the children and the husband himself. The tight-fistedness of a loved one, his desire to restrict everyone and in everything, humiliate and insult. And no matter how strong the feelings for such a person are, it is better to refuse marriage with a miser. But how do you recognize a greedy person?
It is very simple, it is enough only at the very beginning of the relationship to pay attention to the behavior of the partner. Family psychologists distinguish four main types of male characters in terms of managing finances: greedy, stingy, thrifty, and practical. And if a smart woman can turn the character traits of the last two types for her own good, then it is simply unbearable and humiliating to live with greedy and greedy people, but it is impossible to change them.
A greedy or stingy man can turn the life of his beloved into a real hell, bring her to depression, the development of an inferiority complex, self-doubt, which is very difficult to get rid of even after a divorce.
You can recognize a greedy man at the initial stage of a relationship by striving to have all the best, but at the same time not share what you have received with anyone, even with the closest people. When meeting with friends, he will insist that everyone pay for their own glass of beer or a cup of coffee. If he gives a gift, he will definitely indicate its value and emphasize how generous he was when he decided to buy such an expensive thing for his beloved. In a cafe or restaurant, a greedy man will choose dishes for a long time, and then recalculate the amount in the bill. But he himself will always be dressed "with a needle", drive an expensive car and have only the most expensive gadgets and accessories.
A stingy man is stingy in everything, both in relation to loved ones and in relation to himself. It is simply impossible to live with a miser, because he is sincerely confident in his righteousness and does not understand why those around him take offense at him and look with bewilderment. Even if such a man occupies a high position and receives a large salary, he will dress in shabby clothes and dine in the cheapest cafe. The miser does not see the point in gifts for his beloved, he is absolutely sure that the evening can be spent at home watching the TV or in the park, because there is no need to spend money.
The greedy and the niggardly do not lend themselves to re-education and will never change. Each purchase will need to be reasoned and no matter how weighty the arguments given by a woman are, in the eyes of such a man she will remain a spender.
Thrifty and practical men, in most cases, become excellent husbands. If a thrifty husband decides to buy something expensive, but necessary for the house or his beloved woman, he will definitely do it. And a smart woman will understand that a temporary limitation in something is not greed, but economy, which as a result will turn into a plus for her. The practical man strives to have all the best, but tries to shop in the season of sales or discounts. He always knows where, how much and when this or that product costs, and in his "arsenal" there are always cards for discounts in a pizzeria, supermarket or boutique, but you should not take these manifestations of his character as greed.
