It happens that it is very difficult to discourage a man with whom a relationship has ended. But still, there are options that will help you do this as soon as possible. You can go two ways: calmly explain that love has passed, or resort to non-standard methods.
Instructions
Step 1
Try to politely and calmly explain to the man that you no longer have feelings for him. Do not fall for his provocations and threats. He may say that he will commit suicide or watch you at the entrance. Do not worry: men only say this, only a few decide to take extreme steps. Of course, this conversation is best done over the phone so that it is less likely to pity you.
Step 2
The result did not follow - stop communicating with him at all. Do not pick up the phone when he rings, do not open the door for him if he comes to visit. If he called from an unknown number, let him know that you cannot communicate at the moment. Think of any reason: you are washing the floor, painting your nails, sitting in a beauty salon, or your phone is running low.
Step 3
Change the lock or even the place of residence if he has the keys to your apartment. Try not to appear alone near the house, so that he cannot stop you to talk.
Step 4
If these methods don't work, start acting outside the box. You may need some acting talent. If you are not afraid of aggression on his part, let him know that you constantly cheated on him. You can even think of with whom and where. The more details there are, the higher the chance that he will lag behind you forever.
Step 5
Contact the police with a statement, you must accept it. Describe all the actions your ex is doing. Of course, he will not receive any punishment, but he will be summoned to the police for a conversation. Perhaps this will cool his ardor.
Step 6
Try to leave the city for a while. For example, for a month or more. During this time, feelings may cool down, and the young man himself may leave you forever. Unfortunately, this option is not available to everyone.
Step 7
Talk to one of your friends and ask him to play your new lover. It's only better to find friends who can stand up for themselves if something suddenly goes wrong.
Step 8
Begin to actively pursue it yourself. Call him every 30 minutes on the phone, ask him something very simple, or be silly. Offer to meet, for example, for a shopping trip (you need to choose a pastime that he hates). But only when meeting, behave in a friendly manner, without any hint of feelings.
Step 9
When you meet, look untidy: wrinkled clothes, dirty unkempt hair, torn tights, peeled nail polish. Behave rudely or even inappropriately. Chomp while eating, pick your nose, throw tantrums on him and the people nearby, laugh or cry for no reason. Few men can tolerate this behavior. If you choose this option, you will drive your ex away very quickly.
