You have created a family, madly in love with your chosen one and are ready to live a long life with him. But what to do if happiness is overshadowed by constant quarrels, which did not exist before marriage. What problems do young spouses face, how to solve them?
The most common problems in the family can be identified: money, life, raising children. But there are also such quarrels that happen from scratch. Scandals can grow from them, often leading to divorce. You should always try to avoid conflict, because it is much easier than making up later.
Remember one rule: you don't need to start a fight to prove your opinion. Swearing will not get your partner to agree with your beliefs. Even if a spouse yielded to you in a dispute, this does not mean that the conflict has been resolved. Most likely, someone was just tired of the argument, but he still had a sediment on his soul. It is possible that this dispute will re-emerge. Try to resolve the conflict as soon as possible.
The main thing is the ability to listen to your chosen one. This is much more important than pouring out your thoughts to him tirelessly. Let him speak first. You will know what he thinks about, what annoys him. Support him, give advice if necessary. This is a great opportunity to build relationships.
Don't criticize your partner all the time. Everything should be within reasonable limits. Otherwise, in response, you may hear a lot of unpleasant things about yourself. If you need to show your dissatisfaction with any qualities of a spouse, be more cunning. Praise him first, then make a gentle comment.
Don't give orders. No one likes to be encouraged to do something in a commanding tone. But your half will definitely not refuse to fulfill the request.
Learn to admit your mistakes too. Nobody is perfect. The main thing is to correct this mistake in time in order to prevent a quarrel.
Smile at each other more often, because quarreling with a sincerely smiling person is almost impossible. Express love for your partner, praise him. It's always nice. The person will feel your attitude towards him. Then all conflicts will disappear.
Learn to forgive the person for their weaknesses and bad habits. Find more positive in the character of your partner, it's not for nothing that you chose him.
