Perhaps the main eternal question of a person is the question of how to meet true love. And when the relationship has already begun, it is important to decide whether this is your soul mate or another short-term relationship, which sooner or later will lead to a wound in the heart.
Instructions
Step 1
Analyze your union on the following points:
Do you know the person well? To answer in detail, go through the questionnaires offered on the Internet. If you know enough about your partner to know that this is love and that this is your person, then asking questions about their tastes, identities, goals, interests, and favorite foods will not keep you thinking.
Step 2
When you decide that this is not just a passing passion, but admiration for the inner content of a person and a sincere interest in a person, start spending as much time with him as possible. Check how your partner behaves in a variety of life situations and make sure that you are not falling in love. Simple falling in love easily passes after the very first situations in which it is discovered that your beloved is an ordinary person, there is nothing supernatural and ideal in him. He may well be sick, while not having the most charming appearance, and be angry.
Step 3
Find common ground. Highlight the points on which you agree - habits, goals, attitudes. In later life, you just need to rely on something in common that will unite you in difficult times. If you find that the worldviews and directions of views are completely opposite, then, of course, you can experiment, but it is better not to waste time.
Step 4
Check the main features of your beloved against your ideal. Already at the age of 12-13, girls have formed in their minds the image of a man whom she will love with all her soul and follow him even to the ends of the world. Guys, rather, by the age of 19 develop such an ideal. Be carefull! It is necessary to distinguish between being carried away by someone and the action of hormones in a youthful body, requiring romance from the feeling that this person is your destiny.
Step 5
The sexual aspect of a relationship is 50% harmony in the development of a couple. But psychologists believe that true love is the communication of souls. Weigh both parameters - if in any of them you already have problems, then they will only get worse. And the main thing, after all, is to be able to come to an agreement. If you have an excellent dialogue, this is the path to a successful union.
Step 6
Your soul mate, of course, is somewhere in the world, this is how we are arranged, a man and a woman are a harmonious whole. And do not be afraid of loneliness, if you have decided that a person is not your happiness, act and look further, and your heart in an alliance will wisely help you make the right choice.
