Girls usually react more sharply to cheating. You began to notice that the guy began to hide his phone from you, does not even allow you to touch it. And sometimes, while talking, he tries to go away so that no one can hear the conversation. He began to look after himself more carefully than before. Sometimes you find him lost in thought with a smile on his face, staring into emptiness. The guy began to spend less time with you, finding constant excuses. As a result, sooner or later, the fact of treason is revealed. What do you do about it?
Instructions
Step 1
There is a breed of men called "ladies' men." They love to compliment and please not only the lady of their heart, but also strangers. Therefore, they very often cannot refuse too persistent seductresses. Unfortunately, there are enough of them.
Step 2
Think about how you see your future relationship. If you do not want to communicate with this person anymore, then you need to leave and try to forget the traitor. When the attachment is strong, it can be very difficult to do so. First you need to realize the problem and live in the future. There is no need to remember all the good things that happened between you. At least until the attachment is healed.
Step 3
Try to express the suddenly surging feelings in violent emotions. I want to cry - cry, scream - scream, throw out your anger, tearing his forgotten shirt or breaking the dishes. Find a good listener and tell your story. This can be done several times with different people, even strangers. The main thing is that they listen. Over time, bitter disappointment will be replaced by quiet sadness. Hope for a new relationship will follow.
Step 4
A very different behavior follows if you intend to continue the relationship. The one who changed it once may not do it again. Circumstances are different, as are the reasons that prompted the guy to cheat. Having decided to forgive the traitor, first stay a little apart. This time is necessary to calm down and reflect on what happened. But don't get too hung up on the negative. It is better to try to distract yourself by taking up the backlog or something interesting.
Step 5
Get involved in improving your appearance. Switch your attention. After calming down, analyze the situation. Sometimes guys "go left" when they are missing something. Consider how you can improve your relationship. The main thing is that you are sure that your chosen one repents and also does not want to part. It's even better if he sincerely asks for forgiveness.
