At a cheerful and noisy wedding, they shout "bitterly" to the newlyweds, admire the captivating bride and envy the happiness of the young a little. But sometimes, after two or three years, a beautiful, happy couple breaks up. Alas, over time, the magical feelings of happiness, lift, intimacy and tenderness gradually fade away. Where does the love that filled life with happiness go?
“Love lives for three years,” - this is how one proverb says. But in fact, this is not love, but a passion that can be sated by itself. If the relationship is based only on sex and attraction, then, most likely, after the satisfaction of interest (and its attenuation), the couple will break up. True love comes from a more solid foundation than sex. When people treat each other with care and respect, and do not consider their loved one only as a source of pleasure and pleasant emotions, then they have a chance to melt passion into deep love and friendship, when even flaws or oddities become not separating, but bonding factors. develop only when both are “donors”, and not just “recipients.” Unfortunately, not many, especially in their youth, have wisdom that allows them to preserve their feelings. And at the very first difficulties, many lovers retreat, do not compromise, see, first of all, their own "I", and do not think about preserving love. In fact, feelings do not always go away, they just change - violent passion turns into deep tenderness, novelty turns into family habits, and passionate attraction turns into a cozy home affection. It's just that not everyone is ready to move from the first stage of love intoxication to its calm flow, and this is understandable - after all, it is difficult to keep this high bar all the time when all feelings are in pleasant and exciting tension. When the charm of the first months or years is gone, when poetry is replaced by the prose of life, it becomes unbearable for many to exist, solving everyday problems - washing dishes, distributing the budget, cleaning, weekly purchases, and so on. And then the former lovers decide that love is gone. And she really leaves.
