Sometimes it is necessary to stimulate a man's desire to earn more. Practical advice will help.
Instructions
Step 1
First, you need to discuss with your spouse the need to earn more through practical examples. Tell us about the need to purchase certain things for the home, about how important it is to eat right and buy high-quality and varied products, share your dreams of a joint vacation, and so on. Every other day, seriously ask your spouse when you will go to choose new household appliances, thus, you will bring him out of the state of relaxation, stimulate your man.
Step 2
Build your husband's confidence. Praise for the most insignificant victories and advancements, pay attention to his merits, let him strive to develop the best qualities in himself. Believe in his strength, say that such a man deserves more, a better position, a better salary.
Step 3
If you notice an opportunity for your husband to be promoted at work, try to gently give him an idea. You should not lay out the plan of action in the forehead and lament about how he does not notice the obvious decisions. Guide your husband smoothly, ask about his successes, take an interest in his capabilities, prompt and advise carefully.
Step 4
Let the man be the head of the family. Accept his authority, the husband should make the final decision on all issues. Don't take on the burden of being a man. Trust your husband, as soon as you are confident that a man can fully provide for his family with everything he needs, he will do it. Often women, without noticing it, undertake to solve all family problems, after which a man voluntarily gives command into her hands and relaxes.
Step 5
If the family does not have enough finances, usually a woman starts to fuss, thinks about how to save money, looks for possible side jobs for herself and her husband. In such a situation, it is necessary to give a man the opportunity to try to manage finances on his own, to feel a real lack of money, this will also bring him out of a relaxed state and force him to act.
Step 6
Pay attention to yourself. A woman who sees only negativity around, prone to a depressive mood, resentful and indecisive, will not be able to inspire a man, stimulate him for new achievements and development. You yourself must exude confidence and a positive attitude. Energize your spouse with positive energy.
