Late marriage has a number of pros and cons. The undoubted positive side of this phenomenon can be considered the conscientiousness of marriage, and among the minuses, the most significant are health problems that can prevent the appearance of a child.
Pros of late marriage
Women and men after thirty have a good idea of what they want from marriage. Therefore, a fairly large number of marriages concluded relatively late turn out to be strong and stable. After all, the absence of youthful stereotypes, the prevailing idea of a necessary partner and an understanding of one's desires level out a lot of possible problems in marriage.
Another undoubted plus is financial stability. As a rule, after thirty years, people already have time to acquire housing and a good job, so they can devote more time to each other instead of solving complex domestic issues. It has been proven that the absence of significant financial problems contributes to the strength of the marriage.
Life experience and a conscious desire to be parents contribute to the competent, harmonious and coordinated upbringing of the child. An adult couple approaches pregnancy and parenting in a responsible manner that will benefit the child.
After an argument, it's best to make up as soon as possible. The conflicts postponed until the morning have time to grow to frightening proportions.
The experience and wisdom gained lead to the fact that "adult" spouses are less prone to rash actions that can jeopardize the marriage itself. Of course, not a single couple succeeds in living for many years without quarrels and serious conflicts, but people who are over thirty, by this age have already learned to find compromises, know what they want, so that the resolution of problems and conflicts does without nagging and unnecessary roughness.
Psychological counseling can help even very different people get used to each other.
Cons of late marriage
A significant disadvantage of late marriages is the potential health problems of the spouses. Often, after thirty years, people have problems in conceiving and bearing a child. The period between twenty and thirty years is considered ideal for childbearing, when the number of all kinds of diseases is quite small. Failure to conceive a child can lead to the appearance of not the most positive emotions in both spouses.
Another problem can be considered a conflict between the two prevailing characters. After all, before marriage, the spouse lived according to their own rules and in their territories, which means that they made up a number of habits and preferences in the way of life, life, food. It is quite difficult to rebuild and adapt to another person, abandoning habits that have developed over the years. However, if the couple knows how to reach compromises, and with established communication, this problem will not manifest itself too brightly. And if not, the marriage may be in jeopardy.
