The male mind is not structured like the female. Guys can behave with restraint, despite the fact that they have sincere feelings for the girl. If a man does not tell you about his love, it does not mean at all that there is none.
Instructions
Step 1
The first reason why a man does not say tender and affectionate words to you lies in his complexities, which may arise as a result of not entirely correct upbringing. Perhaps in the family of your young man it was not customary to openly express his love and his emotions, so the man will behave with restraint in relation to his soul mate. Trying to instill in him a positive attitude towards compliments will likely not get you the results you want. With such a problem, it is better to contact a psychologist.
Step 2
If your man simply does not like to talk a lot, but is a notorious silent man, you are unlikely to wait for gentle words and tenderness from him. You cannot change the character of a person, therefore, if such a guy does not suit you, change him to a more talkative one, just remember that the secret of family happiness lies not at all in compliments.
Step 3
Another reason for the absence of tender and affectionate words from your beloved representative of the stronger sex lies in the absence of his feelings for you. If earlier he was gentle and attentive, but now he has become tough, most likely, there was either no love, or it passed. When there is no sincerity, passion and spiritual closeness between people, you should not expect gentle words and compliments from a man. He will not say something just to please you, since he absolutely does not want to do this. Talk to your lover and ask if his feelings for you have cooled. Maybe he will say that in fact your worries are in vain, and his apparent indifference is explained by many problems at work or some other factors. Do not rush to ruin the relationship, as you can lose a worthy person due to stupidity.
Step 4
Think about the fact that the lack of affectionate words may be caused by some negative events in the past. Maybe your young man once met a girl, tried to be gentle and affectionate with her, showered her with compliments, and she ridiculed him, taking tenderness for weakness. Such behavior could well provoke the emergence of new complexes and a dislike for quivering words. Explain to your man that you lack warm emotions from him and banal compliments. Say that you will not laugh at his feelings, but, on the contrary, appreciate this positive impulse and manifestation of tender and sincere love.
