If there is a real feeling, quivering and beautiful, called love, you want to make beautiful everything that relates to the object of love, including the words addressed to it. But what to say, how to name your beloved, so that she would be pleased - this sometimes causes difficulty.
Focus on the voice
It is believed that a woman loves with her ears. This means that it is extremely important for her what they say to her and how they say it. Before choosing the right words, you should pay attention to your voice, its timbre and intonation. How gentle does it sound? After all, intonation is the first thing that any person perceives during communication, and only then begins to listen attentively to the meaning of what has been said.
To be initially confident in the warm feelings of a young man, a girl must hear absolutely in every phrase addressed to her love, care, attention and tenderness. Harshness, coldness, and even a friendly tone can make her question your feelings.
Compliments
Of course, your girlfriend wants to say compliments, and this should be done. She will be pleased to hear that you appreciate her, recognize her dignity. But compliments are different.
Avoid the usual hackneyed phrases like "You look great today." And also remember that a compliment will be more valuable the more non-trivial it sounds to your beloved. For example, if everyone recognizes her brilliant mind and extraordinary business qualities, compliment her appearance - she will appreciate it. And tell the owner of beautiful long legs and a magnificent figure that she has amazing radiant, intelligent eyes.
What many people notice, the girl probably knows very well herself. Of course, your compliment will be pleasant to her, but it will not become valuable and exclusive for her. If you notice any line that others have not noticed, but dear and sweet to you, she will make sure that your attitude towards her is completely special.
Sweet words
Sometimes you want to call your beloved girl not just by name, but by some kind word. But what exactly? Listen to your intuition. The affectionate words you choose for your sweetheart can say a lot about the true nature of your feelings.
Bunny, Bunny, Zainka, Zaya and other variations on the name of this animal indicate that the girl for you is, first of all, desirable as an erotic object. Think about whether she is interesting to you as a person?
Pussy, Kitty, Kitten is also the name of a soft and fluffy animal, but the subtext here is different. In addition to the sensual component, there is respect and interest in the girl's spiritual world - it is not for nothing that the cat is considered one of the most mysterious animals.
Fish, Fish, My Fish. A caught fish is a great success, and for you this relationship is valuable and meaningful. But, in addition, fish is associated with something cold and slippery. Perhaps the girl does not fully reciprocate you.
Musya, Pusya and other "kindergarten" babble speaks more about your attitude to your love, as to a game. Fascinating, cute, but then either the game will develop into something more serious, or it will end.
Sweetie, Bun, Pyshechka and other words are usually addressed to girls with a soft character and appetizing forms. If you dream that your friend will lose a little weight, you should not call her that - such nicknames only encourage her to remain plump.
The Sun, the Sun - this is how they usually call the one who is the center of the world for you, the main figure in your life, someone very valuable and significant. If you want to constantly call your friend the Sun, you should think about what areas of life, besides love, do you lack well-being.
Non-standard nicknames. There are words that no one except you would call their beloved, and you yourself are unlikely to call another girl that. Usually these nicknames have their own little history, known only to the two of you, and therefore are especially valuable and interesting.
In any case, no matter how you name your beloved, the main thing is that she too, this nickname seems cute, funny and pleasant.
