When love breaks out between two people, they dream that this is forever. But very often one of the partners, most often a man, takes an ordinary love for a great feeling. Then the passion quickly passes, and instead of it, emptiness appears.
Instructions
Step 1
The reasons for cooling relations can be very different. But the first signs that not everything is in order are often the same. A man calls less often, does not ask for dates, meets with friends alone. He does not answer calls, writes monosyllabic texts or messages on social networks. If this situation resembles yours, talk to your partner frankly. Let him explain his behavior. Perhaps he is just very busy at work, and there is no cause for concern.
Step 2
If during a frank conversation a man behaves strangely, tries to make excuses, or, conversely, is aggressive, ask how he sees your future relationship. If there is no clear answer here, get ready, most likely, your partner will leave you soon.
Step 3
Separation is not always painless, especially if the two are married. The days of the knights are long gone, and now you rarely meet a man who is ready to leave all the property of his former beloved. On the contrary, many of the stronger sex cling to every little thing they buy. They ask to return gifts, share an apartment, dacha, etc. At the same time, not paying attention to the fact that there are common children with my mother who need to live somewhere.
Step 4
In order not to lead to the situation of the judicial division of property, talk to the man frankly. Say that now, on emotions, you should not do anything. Explain that you are not preventing him from leaving, that this is his decision, and that you accept it. Try to build a dialogue, no matter how difficult it may be for you. Always remember that a change in life is a chance to improve it. Perhaps after a divorce, you will meet the man of your dreams and live with him until old age in a happy marriage.
Step 5
If a man, after leaving, insists on meeting with children, do not bother him. It will benefit everyone. Just discuss that "Sunday" dad is not what the children need. If he wants to take part in their life - let him go to parent-teacher meetings in school and kindergarten, take him to the clinic, to circles, etc. when needed. And he does not come for half an hour on Sunday to give a chocolate bar. Only by participating in the daily life of children, staying aware of their problems, can you be a real father for them.
