Full compatibility of a man and a woman (psychological, sexual and partner) is the key to a long, strong and successful relationship. It is important that compatibility should manifest itself not only in any one area of life. For example, sexual compatibility will no longer be of such great importance a few years after the start of a relationship, when psychological and partner compatibility comes to the fore.
Instructions
Step 1
As a rule, at the first stage of the development of relations between a man and a woman, sexual attraction plays a decisive role. Therefore, sexual compatibility of partners is determined most simply after the first physical intimacy.
Compatibility in love, of course, is very important, because without it, it is impossible to achieve emotional and intimate harmony. However, it still does not guarantee mutual understanding and successful overcoming of joint life difficulties.
If due to misunderstandings you are constantly in a state of war and your strife only subside in bed, try to determine your compatibility on other levels of the relationship.
Step 2
Take a piece of paper and divide it in two. In the left column, list all the traits in your partner that annoy you, and in the right column, list the traits that you like.
The definition of character compatibility is that now you need to decide which traits your partner has more - which annoys you or which you like. Think about which negative aspects of your partner's character you are willing to put up with and which are not, while keeping in mind that it is your subjective assessment that is important in the process of conducting the test.
For example, for most people, the reason for breaking up is unlikely to be the fact that your partner constantly forgets to close the tube of toothpaste. But the presence of pathological greed in a partner is a reason to think. Although, if at the same time you yourself prefer austerity, this trait of a partner's character can turn into a plus for you.
This test is especially good to do with a partner and then compare the results.
Step 3
The main component of a successful relationship between a man and a woman is psychological compatibility. You can define it in the following way. Draw a scale of your values on paper in descending order, putting the most important thing in life for you (family, money or career, etc.) as the first item. Then list on paper the responsibilities of each spouse and your socio-political views. Ask your partner to do the same and compare the results.
The compatibility of a man and a woman in this case is determined not by a complete coincidence in all points (which is unlikely), but by their similarity. For example, it's good when partners prioritize the same things in life. But if for one partner the main thing in life is a career, and for another family, we can say that this is already a ready ground for disagreement. Also, the reason for misunderstanding is different views on the responsibilities of spouses, and sometimes even on the socio-political situation in the country.
Step 4
An important role in successful relationships is played by partner compatibility - the ability of a man and a woman to manage the family budget, effectively interact in the process of making money and using it.
Partner incompatibility can be indicated, for example, by different views on spending money. To test partner compatibility in this matter, try to draw up a family budget plan, and then compare it with the one that your partner drew up. Evaluate the rationality of the estimated spending in the partner's budget and compare them with your ideas about the necessary expenses.
